In this re-released episode of The Birth Trauma Mama Podcast, I’m revisiting one of the most requested and tender topics in our community, birth trauma anniversaries. Whether it’s your child’s first birthday or their fifth, anniversaries of traumatic births can stir up a swirl of emotions: grief, anger, anxiety, guilt, and everything in between.

In this solo Q&A-style episode, I answer your questions about what it means to navigate these layered, complicated days. I talk through why the lead-up to the anniversary can feel harder than the day itself, how to hold space for celebration and sorrow, and how to talk to loved ones who just don’t seem to get it.

Whether you're deep in anticipatory anxiety or wondering how to ask for compassion from a partner who's burned out on your trauma, this episode is for you.

This episode is a gentle reminder: your feelings are valid. You are not selfish. And you are allowed to honor your trauma, even on the day your baby was born.

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