In this episode, hosts Chris and Sam welcome Duncan and Gina, authors of the book 'Lower the Bar.' They share their personal journey through Duncan's struggle with pornography addiction, Gina's involvement in his recovery, and how they co-authored their book. They discuss the importance of openness and transparency in their relationship, the evolution of Duncan's addiction, and the steps they took towards healing. Highlights include Duncan's battle with addiction, the turning points in their journey, emotional challenges, and how they ultimately found strength in each other. Gina emphasizes the significance of messy conversations and mutual support in overcoming obstacles. The episode concludes with a special song, Duncan's original piano composition 'Creation,' which symbolizes their story of resilience and rebirth.

To connect with Duncan email: [email protected], visit his website: https://lowerthebarbook.com/, buy his book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4nizAaB

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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:53 Writing 'Lower the Bar'
02:39 Duncan's Early Life and First Encounter with Pornography
05:14 The Formation of Addiction
11:47 Gina's Background and Relationship with God
16:19 Dating, Marriage, and Disclosure
20:48 Struggles and Confessions
21:35 Marriage Challenges and Infidelity
23:03 Addiction and Recovery Journey
27:16 Emotional Affairs and Business Struggles
35:16 Counseling and Healing
44:06 Final Reflections and Original Song