In this episode of 'Live Unashamed,' Sam introduces Mason, a close friend with a similar background, to discuss their shared experiences and the difficulties they've faced in connecting with a loving, non-transactional God. The conversation explores the challenge of reconciling a shame-based relationship with God, integrating genuine prayer, and finding peace in the midst of spiritual turmoil. Throughout the discussion, they emphasize the importance of understanding the true character of God and share personal experiences and strategies for deepening one's faith. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to contribute scriptures that reflect God's love and a special sermon by Graham Cook.

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00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:28 Meet Mason: A Journey of Friendship and Similar Experiences
02:45 Struggles in Recovery and Faith
04:31 Deconstructing and Reconstructing Faith
05:58 Practical Steps to Reconnect with God
11:01 Overcoming the Try Harder Gospel
12:55 Connecting Through Scriptures
13:21 Rewiring Beliefs About God
14:20 Transformational Experiences
18:13 Rediscovering Prayer
20:22 Understanding God's True Character
25:07 Invitation to Share Scriptures
26:11 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement

In this engaging Q&A episode of Unashamed Unafraid, the hosts dive deep into various questions sent by listeners surrounding addiction, recovery, and spirituality. The discussion ranges from whether God withholds recovery to teach lessons, to healthy masturbation, and coping mechanisms. They also address difficult topics like coping with pornography addiction while having autism, and the realistic timelines for a successful recovery journey. Tune in for an insightful and honest conversation aimed at tackling tough questions and fostering deeper understanding.

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00:00 Introduction and Q&A Revival
01:57 Deep Dive: God's Role in Addiction Recovery
04:36 Exploring the Nature of God
07:38 Philosophical Reflections on Suffering and Faith
10:18 Next Question: Masturbation Discussion
10:53 Healthy Masturbation: Perspectives and Debates
15:38 Personal Experiences and Recovery Insights
22:09 Exploring Underlying Emotions and Sexual Shame
23:07 Healthy Masturbation: Individualized Perspectives
23:18 Listener Engagement and Questions
24:12 Navigating Sexuality and Church Teachings
30:16 Understanding Autism and Addiction
34:47 Balancing Relationships and Recovery
39:12 Realistic Timelines for Recovery
45:20 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this deeply moving episode of Unashamed Unafraid, Chris and Sam discuss some of their worst moments in recovery, confronting actions driven by addiction and the deep shame associated with them. They share personal stories of betrayal, lying, and the immense pain caused to loved ones. Through these confessions, they aim to provide a voice of compassion, understanding, and hope for those struggling with addiction. Tune in to hear how they have worked through their darkest moments, made amends, and found grace and redemption on their journey to recovery.

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00:00 Welcome
00:36 Ashamed and Afraid
01:09 Worst Moments in Recovery
02:22 College Confession
06:28 Making Amends
07:12 Lies and Betrayal
09:32 Blaming Others
14:55 Compassion and Acceptance
18:14 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this heartfelt episode of Unashamed Unafraid, join hosts as they sit down with Kyle and Madison, a couple who bravely share their journey through Kyle's pornography addiction and their path to recovery. From childhood struggles to marital challenges, Kyle and Madison discuss the impact of addiction, the importance of honesty, and the role of faith in their healing process. They candidly talk about the hurdles they've faced, the steps they've taken to rebuild trust, and how they found hope. Their story serves as a powerful testament to the power of vulnerability, resilience, and the commitment to walking the path of recovery together. Don't miss this inspiring conversation that sheds light on the realities of addiction and the possibilities for renewal.

*To connect with Kyle & Madison, visit their Instagram & TikTok

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00:00 Introduction
01:51 Early Childhood and Family Dynamics
05:33 First Encounters with Pornography
06:28 Struggles and Secrecy in Adolescence
08:18 Marriage and Escalation of Addiction
09:32 Discovery and Confrontation
10:20 Attempts at Recovery and Relapse
16:28 Creating a Safe Space for Honesty
19:23 Personal Experiences and Empathy
20:43 Steps Towards Healing and Faith
21:24 The Power of Honesty in Recovery
22:17 Struggles and Setbacks in the Journey
26:15 Sharing the Journey on Social Media
27:59 Viral Moments and Public Reactions
35:55 The Role of Faith in Recovery
38:27 Ongoing Recovery and Future Goals
41:10 Concluding Thoughts and Reflections

In this episode, hosts delve deep into the unique journeys of personal recovery. They discuss the diverse paths different individuals take towards recovery, emphasizing that what works for one person may not necessarily work for another. They explore different camps such as trauma,  therapy, church, and the 12 Steps program, and stress the importance of finding a personal approach to recovery. With heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, this episode encourages viewers to identify what truly works for them and persist through the challenging recovery process. Don't miss this inspiring and honest discussion on forging your own path to recovery. 

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00:00 Welcome to Live Unashamed
00:37 Introducing the Topic: Finding Your Own Recovery
01:08 Different Paths to Recovery
03:03 The Importance of Personalizing Recovery
04:15 Finding the Right Therapist
08:13 Making Hard Choices in Recovery
11:51 Implementing Effective Systems
12:54 Involving God in Recovery
16:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode, hosts Chris and Sam welcome Duncan and Gina, authors of the book 'Lower the Bar.' They share their personal journey through Duncan's struggle with pornography addiction, Gina's involvement in his recovery, and how they co-authored their book. They discuss the importance of openness and transparency in their relationship, the evolution of Duncan's addiction, and the steps they took towards healing. Highlights include Duncan's battle with addiction, the turning points in their journey, emotional challenges, and how they ultimately found strength in each other. Gina emphasizes the significance of messy conversations and mutual support in overcoming obstacles. The episode concludes with a special song, Duncan's original piano composition 'Creation,' which symbolizes their story of resilience and rebirth.

To connect with Duncan email: [email protected], visit his website: https://lowerthebarbook.com/, buy his book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/4nizAaB

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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:53 Writing 'Lower the Bar'
02:39 Duncan's Early Life and First Encounter with Pornography
05:14 The Formation of Addiction
11:47 Gina's Background and Relationship with God
16:19 Dating, Marriage, and Disclosure
20:48 Struggles and Confessions
21:35 Marriage Challenges and Infidelity
23:03 Addiction and Recovery Journey
27:16 Emotional Affairs and Business Struggles
35:16 Counseling and Healing
44:06 Final Reflections and Original Song

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam shares his personal struggles with the fear of 'doing the work,' fueled by shame and external pressures to perform. The conversation explores the importance of creating safety, setting personal goals, and building effective systems to maintain sobriety. Chris underscores the significance of consistency and the power of support networks in the journey toward recovery. Whether you're battling addiction or looking for motivation to make positive changes in your life, this episode offers invaluable insights and practical advice.

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00:00 Introduction
00:56 The Struggle with Shame and Recovery
02:08 Personal Experiences and Insights
06:51 The Importance of Doing the Work
09:40 Creating Safety and Support Systems
13:43 Conclusion

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, we are joined by Jeni Brockbank, Executive Director of H.E.R. Wings Unfold, founder of T.S. 12 Anon and the lead host of Relational Trauma SOS. Jeni shares her journey through relational trauma and recovery, providing insights into the importance of addressing deeper issues such as trauma and abandonment in addiction recovery. Jeni discusses her innovative trauma-sensitive 12-step program designed to meet people where they are in their recovery journey. She emphasizes the necessity of creating safety and stabilization, processing grief and mourning, and integrating and growing from these experiences. Jeni also talks about the unique aspects of her program, the importance of community support, and her personal experiences that led her to this work. This episode offers valuable perspectives for those struggling with addiction, betrayal trauma, or supporting loved ones through recovery.

*You can connect with Jeni & her resources here:

herwingsunfold.org

ts12anon.org

Insta: https://www.instagram.com/herwingsunfold?igsh=MWhnd2xuMjIycHhjeQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578036710116

Relational Trauma SOS Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/21XenP3oY0bvBGayYaOzcx?si=7bdf5991912c44a3

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00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction
00:55 Personal Reflections on Addiction and Recovery
02:23 Discussion on Relational Trauma and Broader Audience
05:24 Jeni's Background and Journey
07:22 Challenges and Insights in Traditional Recovery Programs
09:54 Developing a Trauma-Sensitive 12-Step Program
18:56 Incorporating Prayer and Silence in Meetings
21:21 Adapting Spiritual Language for Inclusivity
22:43 Balancing Feedback and Original Intent
23:19 The Importance of Safe Spaces in Recovery
27:20 Trauma-Informed Language in Recovery Programs
29:46 Stages of Trauma Recovery
36:02 The Rest Process: An Alternative to Surrender
38:18 Personal Reflections and Program Impact
39:33 Conclusion and Call to Action

In this episode of Live Unashamed, Sam and James delve into personal battles with shame, insecurities, and addiction. Sam shares his journey of overcoming his fears of inadequacy to take over the podcast, while he discusses his struggles with pornography addiction and how his relationship with God has played a crucial role in his healing process. They emphasize the importance of viewing God as a relational being rather than a transactional one, and explore how faith, reliance on God, and embracing discomfort can lead to personal growth and recovery. Join them in this candid and inspiring conversation and learn how to live unashamed.

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00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:43 Overcoming Insecurities and Fears
02:10 The Power of Prayer and Relationship with God
02:24 Struggles with Addiction and Recovery
04:34 Understanding God's Role in Our Lives
05:41 The Concept of Relying on God
07:19 Transactional vs. Relational View of God
13:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

In this episode of Unashamed Unafraid, join us as we delve into the journey of Jeremy Lipkowitz, an ICF certified coach and meditation teacher, who shares his personal battle with porn addiction. Jeremy explores the root causes of addiction, the impact it had on his life, and how mindfulness and meditation played a vital role in his recovery. Through his story, learn about the power of awareness, the importance of self-compassion, and the concept of equanimity. Whether you are struggling with addiction or simply seeking a more fulfilling life, Jeremy’s insights offer valuable guidance. Tune in to discover how breaking free from addiction is about leading a life of integrity, peace, and gratitude.

*Connect with Jeremy here:
Website: https://www.jeremylipkowitz.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremylipkowitz/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyLipkowitz

Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/7rdPRXvg3tY93PVE7tleSA?si=1b4bf713145d48f7

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00:00 Introduction to Unashamed Unafraid Podcast
01:06 Jeremy Lipkowitz's Personal Journey with Porn Addiction
03:05 Understanding the Roots of Addiction
05:04 The Subtle Harms of Pornography
08:00 A Secular Approach to Recovery
10:06 Mindfulness and Meditation in Recovery
18:51 The Practice of Equanimity
20:27 Challenges and Rewards of Mindfulness
22:40 Understanding Momentum and Mindfulness
25:03 The Realm of the Hungry Ghosts
27:25 Mindfulness Training and Practices
31:57 The Power of Self-Compassion
37:04 Professional Journey and Resources
40:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement