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So many couples start wondering, “How did we get here?” once kids enter the picture. It’s not that the love disappeared — it’s that it got deprioritized. Parenthood changes everything. Between sleepless nights, endless to-dos, and the emotional load of raising kids, your relationship can easily slip into “roommate mode.”

In this episode, I break down what’s really happening when love feels distant — and how to start nurturing it again in simple, sustainable ways. I share why parenthood naturally shifts your focus, how couples drift from lovers to co-parenting partners, and how to rebuild emotional intimacy through micro-moments of connection.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “We used to be so in love — what happened?” this episode will help you see that you haven’t lost love… you’ve just stopped putting in the work to grow it.

You’ll learn:

• Why love fades when it’s not nurtured (and how to revive it)
• The shift from romantic partners to logistical roommates
• Simple ways to reconnect without overhauling your life
• Why intentional connection matters more than big gestures

It’s never too late to realign with your priorities — or each other.

Resources Mentioned:

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