In this episode I talk with CJ Grace about how to get over the shock of infidelity a subject that CJ knows all to well and has written a book and many articles on this very subject. CJ believes that the best revenge is to get past wanting revenge and using the shock of infidelity to trigger positive transformation in your life. CJ's book 'Adulterer's wife how to thrive whether you stay or not' and her blog can be found at her web site www.adultererswife.com