Welcome to episode 145 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m pleased to welcome Elizabeth “Liz” Newsom, LCSW to the podcast. In this episode she speaks to me about using BDSM as a form of self-care and finding your healthier self, and provides recommendations on where to get started.  

 

Elizabeth “Liz” Newsom, LCSW, is a sexuality/intimacy therapist/educator specializing in working with individuals who identify as kinky and/or consensually non-monogamous (poly, swingers, etc.); those who identify as gender non-conforming and/or have questions about sexuality; as well as those who need assistance with issues such as depression, anxiety, mood disorders, trauma, communication/anger/intimacy issues and much more. In addition to standard individual, family and relationship counseling, Liz is currently expanding her practice to include supervising and training new therapists with her sex positive inclusive therapeutic approach.  

 

For the last few years she has been providing community/professional education regarding working with kinky clients, specifically with the intent of normalizing kink for professionals that work with kinky individuals and educating on the difference between domestic violence/assault and kink. Additionally, she has been providing support and education around parenting, relationship transitions, and co-parenting in the context of consensual non-monogamy.  She is a member of several organizations including American Association of Sexuality Educators, Clinicians and Therapists (AASECT), World Professional Association of Transgender Health (WPATH), Texas Association Against Sexual Assault (TAASA) and a board member with National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF). 

 

Questions Asked:  

• How can you use BDSM as a form of self-care? 
• What falls under the umbrella of BDSM? 
• What are ways in which people will find their healthier selves through BDSM? 
• Is it possible to find pleasure outside of your erotic template?  
• How did Liz’s clients find body acceptance through BDSM? 
• What are the first steps Liz would recommend doing?  

 

 

Find Liz here:  

www.realisticexpectations.net 

 

Resources 

https://www.amazon.com/Screw-Roses-Send-Thorns-Sadomasochism/dp/0964596008   

https://fetlife.com  

 

Find me on social media:

https://www.instagram.com/oasis2care 

https://www.facebook.com/oasis2care  

  

Work with me: 

https://oasis2care.com/contact-nazanin-moali-psychologist/ 

 

Extra Content:

Bonus episode, Sex & Anorexia Nervosa: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-anorexia-nervosa-sex/ 

Bonus Episode, Sex & OCD: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-episode-ocd-and-sex/ 

Bonus Episode, Sex & Depression: https://oasis2care.com/bonus-depression-sex/  

 

Podcast Produced by Pete Bailey - http://petebailey.net/audio 

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