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Episode 122: “Don’t Touch Me Like That”: Confronting Unwanted Touch In Your Relationship


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Does your partner ever touch you in ways, times, or places that you don't feel comfortable with? A staggering 78% of people have experienced unwanted touch in their relationships. We’re talking things like boob honks, humping from behind, and ass smacks.

 

So what are you supposed to do when the person you love and trust is touching your body in ways that you don’t like? There’s one thing we’re clear on: it’s your body, and you get to decide how it gets touched. That being said, there can be nuances in these kinds of situations. What if you’ve never told your partner you don’t like that kind of touch? What if you know your partner has good intentions, but just isn’t understanding your boundaries?

 

In this episode, we're not just highlighting the problem; we're providing solutions. We'll walk you through the three most common scenarios when it comes to unwanted touch in relationships, and provide practical guidance on how to tackle them. Whether you're seeking advice on communication, setting boundaries, or understanding consent, we've got you covered.

 

Links & Resources:

Guide:  Art Of Initiation (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/the-art-of-initiation/)

Guide:  Survivor’s Guide (https://free.vmtherapy.com/survivors-guide-opt-in/)

 

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Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode122

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