Feeling guilty about not being a "Tiger Mom" (or Dad)?  Let me give you 3 reasons why you don't have to feel that way.  Get yourself ready for the next time that someone says that you (or parents in general) have to be tougher on our kids.  You've probably heard about the authoritarian parenting style advocated by Amy Chua in her Tiger Mom book.  Lots of Americans think she has good point that the problems with American kids is that they are being raised with too much leeway, and that we're not being tough enough on them.  The reason, they say, that our Math scores are too low is that we're not strict enough and we don't have high expectations for our children.  Are they right?  Or are there other ways that our children are being successful that we don't take into account?  If you're feeling discouraged about parenting let me raise your spirits.