One of the questions I see the most in Facebook groups I follow is, "How do I know if my partner is turned on?" But I think that what they really want to know is the opposite. They want to know why their partner isn't showing the outward signs of arousal like an erection or wetness. Let's talk about what some studies have found about the difference between men and women when it comes to how our bodies react to stimuli and how our brain reacts. Because, as with most things, they are very different.

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Come As You Are by Emily Nagasaki

Sex At Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda Jethá