My clients often say that they don't communicate well with their husbands, but actually, we as humans are really good at communicating. In fact, only about 7% of communication is verbal. We pick up on the non-verbal cues that our spouses are giving us, and sometimes we don't like what we "hear." So in this podcast, I'm talking to you pursuers out there. (I'm talking directly to the men today, but there are also women who do this too.) The pursuers are the ones who feel like when their wife says no, that just means try harder. You've already caught her since you're married. Are you actually causing her to run when you chase her?