You keep calling yourself lazy… but deep down, you know that’s not really it.
You’re tired, overwhelmed, and wondering why you just can’t seem to get it together.
In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s actually going on when you feel stuck or off-track—and why pushing harder isn’t the answer. I’ll share a few real-life stories from women who thought they just needed more willpower, and what helped them finally feel calm, clear, and in control again.
Tune in to learn:
<ul>
<li style="font-weight:400;">Why “laziness” isn’t the issue—and what to ask yourself instead.</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;">One simple action that calms your system and creates momentum.</li>
<li style="font-weight:400;">How to stop the all-or-nothing cycle and start feeling like you again.</li>
</ul>
Click play and let’s dive in.

You keep calling yourself lazy… but deep down, you know that’s not really it. You’re tired, overwhelmed, and wondering why you just can’t seem to get it together. In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s actually going on when you feel stuck or off-track—and why pushing harder isn’t the answer. I’ll share a few real-life stories from women who thought they just needed more willpower, and what helped them finally feel calm, clear, and in control again. Tune in to learn: Why “laziness” isn’t the issue—and what to ask yourself instead. One simple action that calms your system and creates momentum. How to stop the all-or-nothing cycle and start feeling like you again. Click play and let’s dive in.

You keep calling yourself lazy… but deep down, you know that’s not really it.
You’re tired, overwhelmed, and wondering why you just can’t seem to get it together.
In this episode, I’m unpacking what’s actually going on when you feel stuck or off-track—and why pushing harder isn’t the answer. I’ll share a few real-life stories from women who thought they just needed more willpower, and what helped them finally feel calm, clear, and in control again.
Tune in to learn:
<ul>
<li>Why “laziness” isn’t the issue—and what to ask yourself instead.</li>
<li>One simple action that calms your system and creates momentum.</li>
<li>How to stop the all-or-nothing cycle and start feeling like you again.</li>
</ul>
Click play and let’s dive in.

Episode 264: You’re Not Lazy—Here’s What’s Really Going On

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence. You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered. I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love. If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place. Click play and let’s dive in.

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Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start?Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming.This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence.You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered.I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love.If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place.Click play and let’s dive in.

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence. You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered. I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love. If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place. Click play and let’s dive in.

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