When I was first married to my first husband, it felt like he ALWAYS wanted sex. If I showed him any affection at all, it had to lead to sex. I, like a lot of women, didn't want it to always mean I had to have sex. I missed what it was like when we were dating, when we could be affectionate and that's as far as it went. So, why does this pattern of expectation start and what can we do about it in our relationships? That's what we're talking about in this episode. If that pattern is happening in your relationship, let's work to fix it!