In today's episode, Trisha and I answer a listener's question about anxiety, overthinking and the need to control.
The question comes from a listener who asks:
"Has Trisha any tips for dealing with overthinking due to anxiety and wanting things to go a certain way? Why do we feel that need when all we can control is ourselves?"
It's a great question and one I think many women will relate to.
If you find yourself worrying about the future, replaying conversations, trying to make things go a certain way or feeling uncomfortable when things are out of your control, this episode is for you.
Trisha McHale brings her grounded psychotherapist perspective as we explore this listener's question together.
Click play and let's dive in.
To join  Thrive Academy, Jessica’s coaching program, go to<a href='http://www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive'> </a>www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive
To contact Trisha McHale for more information on Therapy and Counselling services:
galway@mindandbodyworks.com 
091 725 750
About Trisha McHale:
Trisha is a Psychotherapist and Director of<a href='https://mindandbodyworks.com'> Mind & Body Works Counselling and Psychotherapy Centre</a>, based in Galway, with centres in Galway and Dublin. Their team of over 50 Psychotherapists and Psychologists work with adults, couples, adolescents, and children, offering therapies including CBT, EMDR, and Art Therapy. They also run a low-cost counselling service.

In today's episode, Trisha and I answer a listener's question about anxiety, overthinking and the need to control. The question comes from a listener who asks: "Has Trisha any tips for dealing with overthinking due to anxiety and wanting things to go a certain way? Why do we feel that need when all we can control is ourselves?" It's a great question and one I think many women will relate to. If you find yourself worrying about the future, replaying conversations, trying to make things go a certain way or feeling uncomfortable when things are out of your control, this episode is for you. Trisha McHale brings her grounded psychotherapist perspective as we explore this listener's question together. Click play and let's dive in. To join Thrive Academy, Jessica’s coaching program, go to www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive To contact Trisha McHale for more information on Therapy and Counselling services: galway@mindandbodyworks.com 091 725 750 About Trisha McHale: Trisha is a Psychotherapist and Director of Mind & Body Works Counselling and Psychotherapy Centre, based in Galway, with centres in Galway and Dublin. Their team of over 50 Psychotherapists and Psychologists work with adults, couples, adolescents, and children, offering therapies including CBT, EMDR, and Art Therapy. They also run a low-cost counselling service.

In today's episode, Trisha and I answer a listener's question about anxiety, overthinking and the need to control.
The question comes from a listener who asks:
"Has Trisha any tips for dealing with overthinking due to anxiety and wanting things to go a certain way? Why do we feel that need when all we can control is ourselves?"
It's a great question and one I think many women will relate to.
If you find yourself worrying about the future, replaying conversations, trying to make things go a certain way or feeling uncomfortable when things are out of your control, this episode is for you.
Trisha McHale brings her grounded psychotherapist perspective as we explore this listener's question together.
Click play and let's dive in.
To join&nbsp; Thrive Academy, Jessica’s coaching program, go to<a href="http://www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive" rel="noopener noreferrer"> </a>www.jessicacooke.ie/thrive
To contact Trisha McHale for more information on Therapy and Counselling services:
galway@mindandbodyworks.com 
091 725 750
About Trisha McHale:
Trisha is a Psychotherapist and Director of<a href="https://mindandbodyworks.com" rel="noopener noreferrer"> Mind &amp; Body Works Counselling and Psychotherapy Centre</a>, based in Galway, with centres in Galway and Dublin. Their team of over 50 Psychotherapists and Psychologists work with adults, couples, adolescents, and children, offering therapies including CBT, EMDR, and Art Therapy. They also run a low-cost counselling service.

Episode 320: Why Can't I Stop Overthinking?

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence. You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered. I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love. If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place. Click play and let’s dive in.

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Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start?Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming.This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence.You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered.I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love.If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place.Click play and let’s dive in.

Are you DONE feeling stuck, overwhelmed, unhealthy, going around in circles—but not sure where to start? Whether it’s with stress, people-pleasing, overeating, alcohol, or unhealthy habits, you know it’s time for change——but figuring out how to take the next step toward taking back control feels overwhelming. This podcast is for women over 40 who’ve reached that pivotal moment of saying, “I’m done.” Each week, I’ll share stories, practical tips, and real conversations to inspire you and guide you toward a calmer, more balanced life that aligns with what you truly want. Maybe you’re feeling trapped…ready to quit alcohol, stop overeating and let go of unhealthy habits that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to make the changes that you want in your life, this podcast will give you the tools and insights to take those next steps with confidence. You’ll also hear from experts and guests who’ve been through their own transformations. They’ll share their insights and actionable advice so you can avoid the pitfalls they’ve encountered and conquered. I’ll, of course, bring my own experience too - I’ve been through this journey myself. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, stressed out, unhealthy and unsure of how to move forward. Over the past 16 years, I’ve not only transformed my own life but also helped thousands of women over 40 navigate their “I’m done” moments and create healthy, fulfilling lives they love. If you’re ready to move beyond “I’m done” and step into a life where you thrive, you’re in the right place. Click play and let’s dive in.

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