We've all said it at one time or another - "Do you love me?" While it seems like an innocent question, what I've found from working with countless couples is that this "innocent" question often leads down a path of blame, frustration, and unmet expectations. To put it simply, it's a trap. It keeps us focused on the wrong things. So, what do we do about it? That's what we're going to talk about in this episode. It's full of usable suggestions to ask the right questions and focus on the right things.