Sex and Psychology Podcast

Episode 481: Can Our Brains Handle Modern Dating?


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Humans evolved for face-to-face courtship in small communities, where attraction unfolded gradually and choices were limited. Today, we’re navigating global dating markets, algorithms, AI recommendations, endless novelty, and constant rejection. So what happens when ancient mating psychology collides with modern technology?

I am joined once again by Dr. Justin Garcia, evolutionary biologist and Executive Director of the Kinsey Institute at Indiana University. He is the chief scientific advisor for Match, and author of the new book The Intimate Animal: The Science of Sex, Fidelity, And Why We Live and Die For Love.

Some of the specific topics we explore in this episode include:

  • How do dating apps shape our dopamine responses and bonding tendencies?
  • Could AI actually improve mate selection, or is that better left to humans?
  • Are changing relationship patterns a sign of human adaptability, or something else?
  • Where might the future of sex, dating, and intimacy be headed?
  • To learn more about Dr. Garcia, follow @drjustingarcia on the socials.

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