My friend Mark White (professor, LMFT, aspiring ally, mid-60s, active LDS) joins us to talk about his new children’s book—which is focused on an 8-year-old’s decision about being baptized in the context of having two gay dads who attend church with her—and what we can do to be better allies/advocates to queer Latter-day Saints and their families. Mark shares the following:

* Journey to be an aspiring ally/advocate

* Clinical experience

* His publishing company (Firefly Inkworks) and new book, Indigo’s Baptism

* George Gerbner’s cultivation theory

* The power of stories

* Representation matters

* To be seen

* Future books

* Need for all kinds of queer stories, including narratives for a book on LDS Trans and gender nonconforming persons

Mark invites a discussion about how we can be a better ally/advocate (friend, parent, local leader, etc.), including asking our queer friends to let us know what they need and indicate whether we truly are an ally/advocate. The children of queer LDS parents are essentially invisible in LDS culture. Mark hopes Indigo's Baptism is a small step in increasing representation. He desires we use all the resources available to better support our queer friends.

And if you are queer or have queer parent(s), Mark prays his work will give you hope as he talks about his love for and support of the queer community. Please contact him if you are interested in publishing a book or are willing to contribute a narrative to the book he and colleagues are working on that focuses on the needs and stories of current or former members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who are trans and gender nonconforming.

Thank you, Mark, for being on the podcast. You are making a difference. You give me hope.

Links:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61587754991132

Mark’s publishing company: www.fireflyinkworks.com

Etsy store where you can buy Indigo’s Baptism: https://www.etsy.com/shop/FireflyInkworks?ref=shop-header-name&listing_id=4459276962&from_page=listing

Instagram: fireflyinkworks

Mark’s e-mail: [email protected]

Mark’s outline: https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/awvy653dh8ubvi44uxcyb/LLL.Podcast-Outline.Indigo-s-Baptism.Feb-2026.pdf?rlkey=2b6fn8xxu4e37iiiqvexk6c20&dl=0