Are you having a reaction to his/her neglect and emotional abuse and then blaming yourself for having a reaction at all? The healthy answer is not to learn to be okay with being treated that way but, rather, learn what fears you have and learn to set boundaries.   If you are ready to reach out and chat about what you're going through, I'm ready to help you. Follow me on Instagram <a href="http://www.instagram.com/roxannekennedygranata" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@Roxannekennedygranata</a> and click the link in my bio or Reach out for a Free 20 minute session at <a href="https://www.roxannekennedygranata.com" target= "_blank" rel="noopener">Roxannekennedygranata.com </a>

Are you having a reaction to his/her neglect and emotional abuse and then blaming yourself for having a reaction at all? The healthy answer is not to learn to be okay with being treated that way but, rather, learn what fears you have and learn to set boundaries. If you are ready to reach out and chat about what you're going through, I'm ready to help you. Follow me on Instagram @Roxannekennedygranata and click the link in my bio or Reach out for a Free 20 minute session at Roxannekennedygranata.com

Are you having a reaction to his/her neglect and emotional abuse and then blaming yourself for having a reaction at all? The healthy answer is not to learn to be okay with being treated that way but, rather, learn what fears you have and learn to set boundaries. &nbsp; If you are ready to reach out and chat about what you're going through, I'm ready to help you. Follow me on Instagram&nbsp;<a href="http://www.instagram.com/roxannekennedygranata" rel="noopener noreferrer">@Roxannekennedygranata</a>&nbsp;and click the link in my bio or Reach out for a Free 20 minute session at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.roxannekennedygranata.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">Roxannekennedygranata.com&nbsp;</a> &nbsp;

Episode 88: Are You Blaming Yourself for Reacting to Abusive Behavior?

As a survivor of betrayal, infidelity, trauma, and emotional abuse, I Chose In to doing the hard work necessary to see through the manipulation, deceit, and lies that came from being the spouse of an addict. I had to accept that this was my life. The only way to heal was to go through the pain, to see it clear, and work through it. Today, I help others find their way from feeling shattered and hopeless to strong and empowered. You are not alone. You are not the only one that is experiencing these types of things. There is absolutely healing and happiness ahead IF you do what is required to get there. I am the Author of Cutting Ties -Healing from Betrayal Trauma as the Spouse of an Addict. As you read it you will find I don't shy away from the real raw painful truth. My podcast is no different. We can only become something more if we see the truth with clear eyes and be willing to "CHOOSE IN" to doing the hard work. I'm excited to share everything I know with all of you.  -Roxanne Kennedy Granata

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As a survivor of betrayal, infidelity, trauma, and emotional abuse, I Chose In to doing the hard work necessary to see through the manipulation, deceit, and lies that came from being the spouse of an addict. I had to accept that this was my life. The only way to heal was to go through the pain, to see it clear, and work through it. Today, I help others find their way from feeling shattered and hopeless to strong and empowered. You are not alone. You are not the only one that is experiencing these types of things. There is absolutely healing and happiness ahead IF you do what is required to get there. I am the Author of Cutting Ties -Healing from Betrayal Trauma as the Spouse of an Addict. As you read it you will find I don't shy away from the real raw painful truth. My podcast is no different. We can only become something more if we see the truth with clear eyes and be willing to "CHOOSE IN" to doing the hard work. I'm excited to share everything I know with all of you. -Roxanne Kennedy Granata

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