In this episode of Healing With WORTH, Marquelle and Lauren are joined by Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and founder of WORTH, to discuss the subtle and often overlooked red flags that may signal pornography use or other secretive sexual behaviors in a marriage. Using Gottman’s “Four Horsemen,” they explain how these patterns slowly erode safety and connection, how gaslighting and self-blame keep women trapped, and why you don’t need proof of addiction to know something is wrong—mistreatment alone is enough. This conversation offers clarity, validation, and practical guidance for women at any stage of marriage and are ready to trust their instincts and protect their emotional well-being.

In this episode of Healing with WORTH, Marquelle and Lauren explore how triggers, flashes, and alarms show up in the body after betrayal trauma and why those reactions can feel so intense and overwhelming. They break down what is happening in the nervous system, how past experiences get activated in the present, and why these responses are not a personal failure but a survival response. The episode offers gentle, practical tools for noticing and validating what you feel, calming your nervous system, and moving through triggers without getting stuck in spirals of fear, shame, or overwhelm, while reminding listeners that healing and a sense of safety can grow with time and support.

In this episode of Healing With Worth, Marquelle and parent coach Liz Covington explore how neurodiversity can impact marriage and healing after betrayal trauma. Together, they discuss rigidity, sensory differences, emotional regulation, addiction, and how neurodivergent traits can affect intimacy and connection. This conversation offers insight, compassion, and practical perspective for women navigating recovery while in relationships with neurodiverse partners.

When life feels upside down, joy can feel impossible. In this episode, hosts Marquelle and Lauren discuss finding joy through Christ amidst betrayal trauma, opposition, and loss. Through gospel teachings, personal experience, and practical tools, they offer reassurance that healing is possible and that you are not alone.

In this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Marquelle and Lauren offer guidance and hope for women navigating betrayal trauma—especially during the holidays and as the new year approaches. They explore how daily anchoring and renewal routines can help rebuild peace, energy, and emotional stability when trauma has left you depleted and overwhelmed.

In this episode of Healing With Worth, Marquelle and Lauren talk with Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services and Founder of Worth. They discuss how to handle intrusive thoughts that often come with betrayal trauma. They also talk about how to recognize when the adversary is influencing your thoughts, how to separate lies from truth, and how to invite the Spirit to guide your emotions.

In this episode we talk about what it feels like to be lonely and how to find real connection again. We share personal experiences and simple ways to build closeness with yourself, with others, and with God. This honest and comforting conversation reminds you that you are never truly alone.

Healing from Betrayal: Understanding and Managing ResentmentIn this episode of 'Healing With Worth,' hosts Naomi and Marquelle dive deep into the complex emotion of resentment that often accompanies betrayal trauma. They discuss how resentment is intertwined with grief, pain, and a sense of powerlessness. The hosts emphasize the importance of acknowledging and validating these feelings, as well as setting boundaries to protect one’s emotional well-being. They provide insights on processing grief, moving through emotions, and the necessity of self-care and support. Tune in to learn strategies for managing resentment and fostering a healing journey.00:00 Introduction to Healing With Worth00:50 Understanding Resentment in Betrayal Trauma02:46 The Deep Impact of Betrayal Trauma06:47 Navigating Grief and Setting Boundaries10:24 The Role of Self-Compassion and Support20:23 Creating a Plan for Healing23:31 Conclusion and Resources

Navigating Betrayal Trauma: Essentials of Boundaries and IntimacyIn this episode of Healing With Worth, host Marquelle, along with guest Maurice Harker, founder of the Worth Program, delve into the intricate aspects of boundaries and intimacy in the recovery from betrayal trauma. They explore the concept of the intimacy pyramid, emphasizing the importance of creating safety and setting boundaries to facilitate personal and relational healing. The discussion offers valuable insights on how to address emotional and psychological layers of intimacy, the importance of calculated risks, and the need for patience and practice in rebuilding trust and intimacy in relationships affected by betrayal trauma.00:00 Introduction to Healing With Worth00:45 Meet the Hosts and Guest01:00 Understanding Boundaries in Recovery01:35 The Greenhouse Concept03:18 Challenges in Women's Psychology05:01 The Intimacy Pyramid10:05 Navigating Marital Struggles12:57 Practical Tips for Building Intimacy18:45 The Importance of Verbal Intimacy26:13 Defining Boundaries and Preparation29:01 Nurturing Ideas and Dreams29:45 Preparing for Physical Intimacy31:40 Creating Safety and Trust33:54 Addressing Emotional Intimacy35:18 Practicing Incremental Repairs38:48 Balancing Boundaries and Risks45:31 Taking Calculated Risks46:19 The Intimacy Triangle51:31 Concluding Thoughts and Resources

Emotional Differentiation and Healthy Boundaries in RelationshipsIn this episode of Healing With Worth, hosts Naomi and Marquelle discuss emotional differentiation in relationships, particularly in the context of betrayal trauma. They share personal experiences and strategies for managing one’s own emotions without taking on a partner’s negative emotions. The hosts emphasize the importance of grounding, healthy coping mechanisms, and setting boundaries to ensure emotional safety and stability. They also touch on the challenges of dealing with partners who engage in numbing behaviors like excessive video gaming and highlight the significance of support groups in navigating these complex dynamics.00:00 Introduction to Healing With Worth00:51 Understanding Emotional Differentiation02:21 Managing Partner's Negative Emotions06:05 Setting Boundaries for Emotional Health08:35 Dealing with Gaslighting and Emotional Manipulation13:38 Coping Mechanisms and Numbing Out19:24 Creating Safety and Emotional Freedom30:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts