In this episode, I chat with Dr. Carol Tanksley, a ministry friend and author of the book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships.  

We dive into the complexities of sexuality, intimacy, and how personal and cultural experiences shape these aspects of our lives. Dr. Tanksley shares her personal journey of learning about sexuality and intimacy, emphasizing the importance of addressing heart issues and healing from past wounds. We discuss the difference between intimacy and sexuality, the necessity of community support, and the concept of sexual wholeness. Finally, Dr. Carol offers practical advice on creating an escape plan for temptations and highlights the transformative power of faith and vulnerability.

To learn more about Carol and her resources, visit YourSexpectations.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

• Exploration of sexuality and intimacy in the context of faith and relationships.
• Personal experiences and motivations behind writing "Sexpectations."
• The distinction between intimacy and sexuality, emphasizing their different roles.
• The importance of addressing emotional wounds and their impact on sexual behavior.
• The concept of sexual wholeness and its three key aspects: releasing the past, right-sizing sexuality, and cultivating intimacy.
• The role of community in fostering intimacy and support for individuals.
• Strategies for creating an escape plan to manage temptations related to sexuality.
• The significance of submitting one's sexuality to Christ for transformation.
• The journey from forgiveness to personal transformation and purpose.
• The potential for healing and redemption from past traumas and experiences.

More Resources:

• Sexpectations* by Dr. Carol Tanksley
• Dr. Carol's Blog
• Rethinking Sexuality* by Dr. Juli Slattery

Related Podcasts:

• God, Sex, and Your Marriage
• What are Your Sexpectations?
• Identity and the Goodness of Sexuality

*These are affiliate links. Be Broken may earn a commission on qualifying purchases.

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