The Purpose Show

For the Ones Who Over-Explain Themselves


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In this episode, I'm breaking down how to stop letting other people's opinions control you, and why being rattled by feedback isn't a confidence issue, it's a nervous system and identity issue.

When you don't know who you are or trust yourself deeply, disapproval feels like danger. One comment can send you into anxiety, overthinking, spiraling, or self-doubt. Not because something is wrong with you, but because your sense of safety and self-worth is coming from outside of you.

We're talking about:

  • Why criticism and feedback can dysregulate your nervous system
  • How outsourcing your identity creates anxiety and emotional instability
  • The difference between useful feedback vs personal projection
  • Why "being unbothered" isn't numbness — it's self-trust
  • How to become grounded, self-anchored, and emotionally regulated
  • The neuroscience behind writing things out and thinking clearly
  • Practical steps to build self-trust, self-respect, and inner stability

This episode is for you if:

  • You feel anxious about being judged or perceived
  • One opinion can ruin your mood or confidence
  • You over-explain, over-share, or change yourself to be liked
  • You want to feel calm, grounded, and solid in who you are
  • You're ready to stop seeking approval and start trusting yourself

This isn't about becoming perfect or immune to feedback. It's about knowing yourself so deeply that other people's opinions stop running your nervous system.

My links here:https://alliecasazza.com/tpslinks

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