Recovery FOR the Narcissist | Narcissism

Frustration Leaks: The Subtle Erosion of Emotional Safety in Narcissistic Relationships


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In this episode of Recovery for the Narcissist, Dr. Eric Perry explores the subtle but powerful impact of frustration leaks in narcissistic relationships. This episode explores how unspoken emotional distress—expressed through sighs, muttering, or tension-filled body language—can quietly alter the emotional safety of a relationship without a single word being said.

Dr. Perry unpacks the psychological mechanics of frustration leaks, highlighting how this behavior often reflects a deeper struggle with emotional regulation and vulnerability. He explains why individuals with narcissistic tendencies may externalize distress in indirect ways—and how those around them are left to absorb the emotional weight of what goes unspoken.

Listeners will learn about:

  • What frustration leaks look like in real-life dynamics
  • Why narcissistic individuals often externalize emotional distress unconsciously
  • The difference between self-regulation and emotional outsourcing
  • How subtle expressions of frustration can create emotional pressure and distance
  • Practical tools to contain emotion, name impact, and rebuild emotional safety

Dr. Perry offers clear and compassionate insight for both those who have experienced the tension of frustration leaks and those who may be unintentionally creating it. Whether you have noticed a growing emotional distance in your relationship or felt the weight of someone else’s mood without understanding why, this episode provides language, clarity, and a path toward change.

Tune in to discover how frustration—when acknowledged rather than leaked—can become a moment of honest connection rather than quiet rupture. Healing begins not with denial or perfection, but with presence, ownership, and the choice to create emotional safety, one moment at a time.

Connect with Dr. Perry: https://drericperry.com

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Empathy Awakening Workshop: https://drericperry.com/empathyawakening

Disclaimer: The content contained in this podcast is for general information only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional advice, assessment, diagnosis, or treatment. Listeners should not rely on the information provided for their own health needs. All specific questions should be presented to your own healthcare provider. Listening to this podcast in no way creates a professional/working relationship between the listener and the host. If at any time you have an emergency while listening, please contact your local emergency center immediately.

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