It’s thirst-trapping but for lifestyle, image-crafting for your crush. It’s what Jay Gatsby did to attract the attention of his love Daisy, throwing huge lavish parties and living a grand life in the hopes she might notice. Some might say all modern social media is this to an extent. But does it work? You’ll hear from a relationships expert on what the best way forward is, and from a few self-confessed Gatsby-ers.