What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

• How do you even know if you’re settling? What does it look / feel like? 
• Why do men settle, and how is it different from the reasons women settle? 
• How settling sets us up for a feedback loop of losing self confidence and self-esteem.
• Why staying in a relationship hoping the other person will change is a dead end street! 
• Benjamin and Lisa talk about a client who settled for more than 30 years and was finally able to see the light and leave. 
• What does it mean to “marry beneath you” financially, physically, etc. 
• Lisa opens up about using her financial stability to attract men and then resenting them for not making a living, and how she turned it around to learn how to raise her own self-esteem and ultimately, her own self-worth. 

Continue On Your Journey

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Quotes:

• “They can tell that the person isn’t really emotionally available, but they keep settling in the relationship. They keep staying anyway.” - Lisa 
• “Often, people will stay in a relationship or a feeling hoping that the person will change, or they can change the other person. It seldom happens.” - Benjamin 
• “We can feel when suddenly we’ve set aside our dreams and aspirations to just get through the day.” - Benjamin 
• “When you're with the wrong person, you can't be with the right person, or you can't go out and find the right person, it takes a toll on our self esteem.” - Lisa

Continue On Your Journey: 

Lisa Shield| YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Book a Call with Lisa

Email the podcast at: [email protected]