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Giving Voice To Depression unites lived experience and expert insight to shine a spotlight on depression and mental health. Each week, we bring you honest personal stories, evidence-based strategie
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When depression affects your concentration, confidence, or energy, staying productive can feel like a constant battle with yourself. But working harder is not always the answer. In the second half of this practical conversation, Terry and Bridget continue speaking with writer Sarah Fielding, author of the Healthline article, “Nine Ways to Motivate Yourself to Work When You’re Struggling Mentally.” Sarah shares five additional strategies for navigating work while living with depression, anxiety, or burnout. Her advice is not about forcing yourself to perform at full capacity every day. It is about understanding what helps you function, recognizing your progress, and giving your mind opportunities to recover. The conversation explores why taking five minutes to reset is not wasted time, how acknowledging completed tasks can rebuild a sense of capability, and why pushing through without rest may ultimately make it harder to focus. Sarah also discusses creating a work playlist, paying attention to food and caffeine, and choosing clothing that helps you feel more confident and connected to yourself. Most importantly, this episode challenges the belief that productivity must be constant. There will be days when these strategies help and days when they do not. That does not mean you are lazy, weak, or incapable. It means you are human—and learning to work with your mental health may be more sustainable than continually fighting against it. Primary Topics Discussed: Reviewing and celebrating your progress Rebuilding confidence when depression affects work Taking short breaks without guilt Preventing burnout by working more sustainably Using music to create a productive routine How food and caffeine can affect focus and energy Dressing in ways that support mood and confidence Recognizing that difficult days do not make you incapable Taking mental health days when possible Replacing constant pressure with self-awareness Timestamps: 00:01:25 How depression affects focus, decision-making, and workplace performance 00:02:21 Revisiting Sarah Fielding’s article on working while struggling mentally 00:02:57 A recap of the first four motivation strategies 00:03:47 Tip five: review and acknowledge your progress 00:04:32 Why depression can make us question our capability 00:05:14 How recognizing past success can make difficult tasks feel possible 00:05:25 Tip six: take five minutes to reset 00:06:18 Why a short break is not wasted time 00:06:57 How rest can improve focus and productivity 00:07:00 Tip seven: create a motivating work playlist 00:07:21 Using music to train your brain to enter work mode 00:08:15 Tip eight: consider how food and caffeine affect your energy 00:09:27 Tip nine: wear something that helps you feel confident 00:10:17 How depression can make self-care feel pointless 00:10:52 Acknowledging the days when getting started is not possible 00:11:12 The pressure to appear productive all the time 00:11:55 Why taking five minutes can sometimes save hours 00:12:08 Final reflections and encouragement to share the episode Link to Sarah's Healthline article: https://www.healthline.com/health/depression/depression-motivation-tips Explore mental health and addiction treatment options at recovery.com Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/GivingVoiceToDepression/ Terry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/givingvoicetodepression/

When a teenager tells a parent they're thinking about suicide, it's one of the most frightening conversations a family can face. How do you respond without minimizing their pain—or overwhelming them with your own fear? In Part 2 of our conversation with suicide prevention expert Dr. Stacey Freedenthal, we explore five more reasons many teens hesitate to tell their parents they're having suicidal thoughts, along with practical ways adults can respond that build trust instead of shutting down communication. Dr. Freedenthal explains why both underreacting and overreacting can make it harder for a young person to ask for help again. She also introduces the concept of cognitive constriction—the intense mental narrowing that can occur during a suicidal crisis—and explains why listening with empathy is often the most powerful place to begin. In this episode, you'll learn: What "cognitive constriction" means and why it matters Why dismissing suicidal thoughts as "attention-seeking" can be harmful How both minimizing and overreacting can discourage future conversations Better ways to check in with a teen over time Why overprotectiveness can unintentionally increase isolation Signs that may indicate a teenager is struggling with depression How to start a conversation if you're concerned about your child Why helping a teen feel understood is often the first step toward hope Whether you're a parent, grandparent, educator, coach, or another trusted adult, this conversation offers compassionate, practical guidance for one of life's most difficult conversations. Sometimes the most powerful response isn't having the perfect words. It's helping a young person feel safe enough to keep talking. Primary Topics Covered: Teen suicide prevention Talking to a suicidal teenager Cognitive constriction Parent-child communication Listening without judgment Depression in adolescents Suicide warning signs Emotional validation Supporting a struggling teen Creating psychological safetyTimestamps: 00:01:12 Why these conversations matter during Suicide Prevention Month 00:02:11 Recap of the first five reasons teens don't tell their parents 00:03:12 Understanding cognitive constriction during a suicidal crisis 00:04:23 Why empathy and listening come before problem-solving 00:04:59 Evidence-based therapies that can help 00:05:26 Why minimizing a teen's crisis can be dangerous 00:06:03 The myth of "attention-seeking" 00:07:08 Why overreacting can discourage future disclosure 00:07:42 Why these conversations are so difficult for parents 00:08:33 Patience when suicidal thoughts don't disappear immediately 00:09:54 Better ways to check in with your teen 00:10:28 How overprotectiveness can unintentionally isolate teenagers 00:11:23 Starting the conversation before your child does 00:11:36 Recognizing signs your teen may be struggling 00:12:19 The most important thing parents can do: listen with compassion 00:13:17 "Help and hope are available" 00:14:12 If teens don't tell parents, who do they tell? Links Related to Dr. Freedenthal:Dr. Freedenthal's Article: https://speakingofsuicide.com/2013/05/29/parents-and-teens/comment-page-56/Dr. Freedenthal's Website: https://staceyfreedenthal.com/Explore mental health and addiction treatment options at recovery.com Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/GivingVoiceToDepression/ Terry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/givingvoicetodepression/

One of the greatest fears many parents have is learning that their child was struggling—and never told them. Why do so many teenagers share suicidal thoughts with friends but keep them from the adults who love them most? In this important conversation, suicide prevention expert Dr. Stacey Freedenthal explores the reasons many teens stay silent and offers compassionate, practical guidance for parents who want to create safer, more supportive conversations. Drawing on both her professional expertise and her own lived experience, Dr. Freedenthal explains why teens often fear being misunderstood, dismissed, or overwhelming their parents. She also shares common responses that unintentionally shut down communication—and what to do instead. In this episode, you'll learn: Why many teens fear telling their parents they're suicidal How fear, anger, or reassurance can unintentionally end important conversations Why listening is often more helpful than trying to immediately solve the problem The difference between suicidal thoughts and immediate danger Why suicidal thoughts are often symptoms of overwhelming emotional pain—not a genuine desire to die How depression and distorted thinking affect decision-making The importance of helping teens feel heard instead of judged Why compassion and curiosity create safer conversations than panic or guilt Whether you're a parent, grandparent, teacher, coach, or trusted adult, this episode offers valuable insight into how to respond when a young person shares something frightening—and why that first response matters so much. Primary Topics Covered:Teen suicide prevention Suicidal thoughts in adolescents Teen depression Parent-child communication Listening without judgment Supporting a suicidal teenager Depression and distorted thinking Suicide risk and protective factors Emotional validation Mental health conversations with teensTimestamps 00:01:12 Rising rates of youth suicide and why this conversation matters 00:02:16 Why teens are more likely to tell friends than parents 00:03:26 The biggest reason teens hide suicidal thoughts 00:04:20 Why parents' fear is understandable—and how it affects conversations 00:05:12 Mistake #1: Offering reassurance before listening 00:06:03 When parents become overwhelmed and teens stop talking 00:06:47 Why depression convinces people they're a burden 00:07:39 Mistake #2: Responding with anger or blame 00:08:33 Viewing suicidal thoughts as symptoms, not choices 00:09:47 Depression, stress, and other causes of suicidal thinking 00:10:01 Mistake #3: Using guilt to stop suicidal thoughts 00:10:53 Why ambivalence can be a powerful protective factor 00:12:15 Mistake #4: Treating suicidal thoughts as a conscious decision 00:13:37 Dr. Freedenthal shares her own experience with suicidal thoughts 00:14:48 "How the irrational can seem rational" 00:15:34 Why listening may be the most important thing parents can do Links Related to Dr. Freedenthal:Dr. Freedenthal's Article: https://speakingofsuicide.com/2013/05/29/parents-and-teens/comment-page-56/Dr. Freedenthal's Website: https://staceyfreedenthal.com/Explore mental health and addiction treatment options at recovery.com Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/GivingVoiceToDepression/ Terry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/givingvoicetodepression/

When depression steals your motivation, even the smallest task can feel impossible. Getting out of bed. Answering an email. Folding laundry. Starting a work project. From the outside, it may look like procrastination or laziness. From the inside, it can feel like trying to move through wet concrete. In this practical episode, Terry and Bridget welcome writer Sarah Fielding, whose article on staying motivated while struggling with mental health inspired a conversation full of realistic, compassionate strategies for navigating days when depression makes everything feel harder. Together they discuss simple tools that can make overwhelming days feel more manageable, including: Why getting started is often the hardest part Breaking large projects into small, achievable steps Creating realistic to-do lists that build momentum Planning your day around your natural energy levels Giving yourself permission to adapt when depression or burnout hits The difference between being busy and being productive How changing your environment can improve focus Why self-compassion often leads to greater productivity than self-criticism Whether you're working from home, returning to the office, managing a household, or simply trying to make it through the day, this episode offers practical ideas you can try the next time depression makes even the simplest tasks feel overwhelming. Because sometimes the hardest part isn't finishing—it's taking the first step. Primary Topics Covered: Depression and motivation Depression and productivity Executive dysfunction Breaking tasks into smaller steps Time blocking To-do lists and momentum Burnout and mental fatigue Self-compassion Managing work with depression Practical depression coping strategiesTimestamps: 00:01:24 Why motivation can disappear during depression 00:02:23 Meet Sarah Fielding and the inspiration behind today's practical tips 00:02:58 Why getting started is often the hardest part 00:03:54 Planning your day to reduce overwhelm 00:04:16 Time-blocking, prioritizing, and choosing your "Big Three" 00:05:05 Why writing everything down reduces mental clutter 00:06:09 Breaking large projects into manageable steps 00:07:08 Working with your natural productivity patterns 00:07:47 How changing your environment can improve motivation 00:08:35 Checking in with yourself instead of pushing through burnout 00:09:50 Advice for employers supporting employees with depression 00:11:25 Why it's normal not to perform at 100% every day 00:12:23 Busy versus productive 00:13:11 Adapting your routine to match your mental state 00:13:54 The "big rocks" prioritization metaphor 00:14:43 Why small accomplishments create momentum Explore mental health and addiction treatment options at recovery.com Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/GivingVoiceToDepression/ Terry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/givingvoicetodepression/

Can you be depressed and not even realize it? Psychologist, author, and TEDx speaker Dr. Margaret Rutherford joins us to explore a powerful and often overlooked topic: high-functioning and perfectly hidden depression. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, we unpack why so many people deny their depression — even to themselves. Dr. Margaret explains the difference between: Classic depression (observable changes in mood and behavior) High-functioning depression (still productive but internally struggling) Perfectly hidden depression (deep emotional pain compartmentalized and denied) She shares how some people: Believe depression is a personal weakness See it as a failure of faith Feel ashamed to even consider therapy Mistake depression for “just who I am” Experience symptoms that creep in so slowly they barely notice the change One of the most powerful metaphors in this episode describes depression as lights dimming gradually — so slowly you don’t realize you’re squinting. We also explore: Why naming depression can bring relief The role of shame in denial The tension between faith and mental health treatment Why depression is rarely caused by just one thing How therapy can help clarify what feels confusing and overwhelming If you’ve ever thought, “I just don’t feel like myself anymore,” this episode may give language to something you’ve been quietly carrying. Link to Dr. Margaret's TEDx Talk on "Perfectly Hidden Depression": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lXZ5Bo5lafA Primary Topics Covered:High-functioning depression Perfectly hidden depression Depression denial Signs and symptoms of depression Depression and faith Shame and stigma Personal weakness vs. mental illness Bipolar disorder and mood swings Gradual onset depression Why naming depression matters Timestamps: 00:02:15 – Introducing Dr. Margaret Rutherford and the concept of denial 00:02:29 – Classic vs. high-functioning depression 00:03:48 – Perfectly hidden depression explained 00:05:48 – Not recognizing depression as a medical condition 00:06:24 – Relief that comes from naming depression 00:07:54 – The “lights dimming” metaphor for gradual depression 00:10:08 – Reason #1: Viewing depression as a failure of faith 00:11:37 – Reason #2: Believing depression is personal weakness 00:13:48 – Identity loss when you “can’t get your stuff done” 00:16:09 – Faith communities and seeking mental health support Explore mental health and addiction treatment options at recovery.com Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/GivingVoiceToDepression/ Terry's LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/givingvoicetodepression/
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