Gratitude isn’t just for the easy, feel-good times in your marriage. In this episode, we discuss how to practice real thankfulness—especially when things feel tense, unresolved, or even painful—and some simple, down-to-earth ways to reframe complaints into thanks and spot those tiny moments of hope. If you and your spouse are feeling disconnected or just need a little perspective shift, you’ll find encouragement and super practical advice to help you rebuild, reconnect, and start seeing the good even when life gets messy.

Key Takeaways:

• Real vs. Superficial Gratitude:
  Gratitude is more than mere positivity or “Instagram thankfulness.” Find gratitude that heals.

• Why Gratitude Matters in Hard Seasons:
  Even when it feels like your relationship is "a dumpster fire,” you can intentionally seek out the little things worthy of appreciation.

• Complaints Reveal Needs:
  Instead of shaming negative feelings, complaints often signal unmet emotional needs. 

• A Practical Reframing Exercise:
  A step-by-step practice to move from complaints to gratitude

Resources Mentioned in this Episode:

• Take the How Connected Are You? Partner Quiz

• Need marriage coaching? Join Covenant Connections

• Heal from betrayal with my Infidelity Intensive Program

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