Oral sex can be super hot. In fact, some people consider it even more intimate than intercourse.

As one writer put it, "Sexual intercourse is mostly selfish. Sure, you want the other person to get off, but your own orgasm is your first priority. But giving head is, at the core, a selfless act."

Speaking of orgasm, 70%+ of women who have sex with men don't tend to cum through intercourse ... but many can if you go down on them! Yep, going down on her can be super important in some cases, since it can be a reliable way to help your woman partner to get off.

Whether you're dating women or you're in a long-term relationship like a marriage, oral can be a delightful part of your sexual repertoire. But how do you navigate it and make sure it's good for all involved? What, for example, do you do if a woman is actually uncomfortable receiving oral sex (and if that woman is your wife)?

Here, we delve into all that and more -- the good, the bad the ugly -- of going downtown.

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Mentioned on this episode:

The GirlTalk episode on how to go down on a woman (episode 152)

The course based on my sex research: Please Her In Bed

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