Join us as we dive into Anna's recent coffee date experience and the "nervousitement" that comes with meeting a stranger on a first date. Anna recounts her jitters leading up to the date and how Aidan encouraged her to step out of her comfort zone. From a last-minute mole inspections to heartfelt reflections on trust and autonomy, Anna shares her thoughts on the date itself, highlighting her initial impressions and the importance of honesty in dating profiles. We also discuss the broader challenges of being single in the lifestyle and the unique dynamics that come with it. Meanwhile, Aidan provides his perspective on what it's like to be the partner staying at home, offering candid insights into his own feelings of slight jealousy and support. We wrap up with a candid conversation about what happens when "coming out" to friends and others who might not fully understand the concept of ENM.

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🎉 Welcome Back, Everyone! 🎉 If you’re loving our podcast, please drop us a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ review! We're seeing so many of you tuning in – and even emailing us now – it has been awesome! 📬

Today, we’re diving into some juicy updates! 🍸 Last episode, we left you hanging on the “Superman and Wonder Woman” saga – where we had a fab time… but got a lil’ ghosted on the group chat 🦗👻. Turns out, they had a lot going on and want to reconnect, which made us wonder: Should we take it personally when people go silent? 🤔

Plus, there’s a recap of a wild hippie-themed party where someone (aka Aiden) rocked the DJ booth 🎧💃, and a peek into my upcoming coffee “date” ☕ with a single guy (just for fun, of course 😉). But what if it stirs things up? 😬🔥

So if you’re curious about navigating boundaries, bringing up tricky convos, or laughing at our “lifestyle” adventures, you’re in the right place! Drop us an email with your own stories – we'd love to hear from you! 📩💌

In this episode, we dive into our first playdate post-engagement.💍 After weeks of build-up with a sexy couple, the other woman boldly texted Aiden, "You have my full permission to bang me”—and it was ON! Recording from the car just before our date, we chat through our nerves, excitement, and our ✨revolutionary✨ plan to "play first, THEN eat."

As always, when expectations meet reality the result is hilarious, sometimes awkward, and always fun, like when their very interested dog gave Anna the death stare when she started making out with Superman!🤣

Then, in the aftermath of a steamy night, we discuss how to handle the other couple’s post-play radio silence and how easy it is to overthink. We talk candidly about navigating complex emotions, jealousy, and the funny ways relationships grow and surprise us. Tune in to hear the juicy details and laugh along with our misadventures in ethical non-monogamy.

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In this episode, we get candid about our quirks, kinks, and the challenges we face with jealousy and chemistry. From my "jealousy kink" that spices things up, to Aiden’s on-the-spot encounter with "Hot Girl" at a party, to our hilarious realization that we’re basically becoming each other's "secret sluts"—there’s no shortage of juicy moments. We share real stories about balancing spontaneity with trust, setting boundaries, and the surprising ways these experiences bring us closer. Join us as we laugh, learn, and open up about the unique journey we’re on together.

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In this episode of Hacking Love, we revisit some of our early adventures in the lifestyle, focusing on our first visit to a real sex club, revealing our expectations versus reality. We also recount our initial play experiences.

From dealing with unexpected challenges and performance issues to finding our rhythm in group dynamics, we discuss how these experiences have helped us learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of communication, connection, consent and mutual respect.

Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, join us as we explore the exciting and sometimes challenging world of swinging and open relationships.

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In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶

In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like. We share our excitement and the series of funny and real moments, along with in-the-moment recordings before and after the date—one that led to a some sexual frustration!

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Ready to be your best, hottest and most sexy self? We'll show you exactly how!

In this episode of Hacking Love, we explore the critical role health and hormones play in transforming your body and preparing you for active, fulfilling lifestyle experiences. Anna draws from her considerable experience in this area, discussing how to achieve hormonal balance and sexual wellness, how to overcome challenges like erectile dysfunction and body issues, and the importance of a functional medicine approach to overall health. Learn practical tips and expert insights to optimize your wellbeing and get lifestyle ready!

The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice; please consult your primary care provider before making any changes to your diet, lifestyle, supplements, or medications.

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In this episode of “Hacking Love”, Anna grapples with deeply ingrained societal conditioning around sexuality, and her own sense of self-worth. From early-age teachings about the 'proper' roles for women, to confronting double standards, she shares her internal conflicts and evolving perspective shaped by her experiences in the lifestyle community.

Listen as we unpack our battles with slut-shaming, hyper-selectivity, and societal expectations, all while navigating our relationship and discovering our authentic desires and quest for personal freedom and autonomy.. The episode reveals Anna's raw, honest exploration of challenging old beliefs, and ultimately seeking personal growth, self-acceptance, and empowerment.

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As Aiden and Anna prepare for a lifestyle pool party, beginning the recording just before they head out. Anna candidly shares her feelings of self-consciousness and insecurity, particularly around an attractive single woman, which triggers her jealousy. Throughout the episode, the couple debate and discuss their expectations, anxieties, and dynamics, both before and after the party. As the night unfolds, Anna finds herself navigating her feelings, connecting with others, and ultimately discovering more about herself and her relationship with Aiden. The episode gets real as Anna opens up about her struggles, but they find resolutions and deeper understanding by the end of the night.

This one is fun, as we lightheartedly "argue", and then get pretty serious, about feelings of jealousy and how the night might unfold. We come back after the party to compare notes.

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In this episode, Anna and Aiden tackle the question of separate play in their open relationship. Anna proposes that, in order to deal with her own insecurities, Aiden hook up with a particularly attractive and adventurous single woman from their lifestyle group while she's away on work trips. The couple discusses feelings of jealousy, personal boundaries, and the tangled web of emotions that often come with ethical non-monogamy. Aiden recalls his previous experiences with separate play and its impact on his attraction to Anna.

You'll hear about Anna's erotic dream involving multiple partners and how these fantasies shape her views on their relationship. They also discuss real-life scenarios, including potential dates, setting boundaries, and the humor and awkwardness that come with communicating our desires openly. Join us for a raw, insightful, and sometimes humorous conversation that captures the essence of navigating the complexities of a modern, open relationship.

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