Hacking Love: Deepening Commitment Through Open Relationships

In this episode, we get candid about our quirks, kinks, and the challenges we face with jealousy and chemistry. From my "jealousy kink" that spices things up, to Aiden’s on-the-spot encounter with "Hot Girl" at a party, to our hilarious realization that we’re basically becoming each other's "secret sluts"—there’s no shortage of juicy moments. We share real stories about balancing spontaneity with trust, setting boundaries, and the surprising ways these experiences bring us closer. Join us as we laugh, learn, and open up about the unique journey we’re on together.

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In this episode of Hacking Love, we revisit some of our early adventures in the lifestyle, focusing on our first visit to a real sex club, revealing our expectations versus reality. We also recount our initial play experiences.

From dealing with unexpected challenges and performance issues to finding our rhythm in group dynamics, we discuss how these experiences have helped us learn and grow as individuals and as a couple. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of communication, connection, consent and mutual respect.

Whether you're experienced or new to the lifestyle, join us as we explore the exciting and sometimes challenging world of swinging and open relationships.

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In this episode, we kick things off with a shout-out to some of our new listeners all over the world. Listen for your city! Thank you all and feel free to reach out to us! 🫶

In this episode, we dive into our recent lifestyle experiences and how we've learned to balance feelings of jealousy and freedom. One highlight anecdote of the episode revolves around our date to a concert with couple we like. We share our excitement and the series of funny and real moments, along with in-the-moment recordings before and after the date—one that led to a some sexual frustration!

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Ready to be your best, hottest and most sexy self? We'll show you exactly how!

In this episode of Hacking Love, we explore the critical role health and hormones play in transforming your body and preparing you for active, fulfilling lifestyle experiences. Anna draws from her considerable experience in this area, discussing how to achieve hormonal balance and sexual wellness, how to overcome challenges like erectile dysfunction and body issues, and the importance of a functional medicine approach to overall health. Learn practical tips and expert insights to optimize your wellbeing and get lifestyle ready!

The information in this episode is for educational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice; please consult your primary care provider before making any changes to your diet, lifestyle, supplements, or medications.

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In this episode of “Hacking Love”, Anna grapples with deeply ingrained societal conditioning around sexuality, and her own sense of self-worth. From early-age teachings about the 'proper' roles for women, to confronting double standards, she shares her internal conflicts and evolving perspective shaped by her experiences in the lifestyle community.

Listen as we unpack our battles with slut-shaming, hyper-selectivity, and societal expectations, all while navigating our relationship and discovering our authentic desires and quest for personal freedom and autonomy.. The episode reveals Anna's raw, honest exploration of challenging old beliefs, and ultimately seeking personal growth, self-acceptance, and empowerment.

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As Aiden and Anna prepare for a lifestyle pool party, beginning the recording just before they head out. Anna candidly shares her feelings of self-consciousness and insecurity, particularly around an attractive single woman, which triggers her jealousy. Throughout the episode, the couple debate and discuss their expectations, anxieties, and dynamics, both before and after the party. As the night unfolds, Anna finds herself navigating her feelings, connecting with others, and ultimately discovering more about herself and her relationship with Aiden. The episode gets real as Anna opens up about her struggles, but they find resolutions and deeper understanding by the end of the night.

This one is fun, as we lightheartedly "argue", and then get pretty serious, about feelings of jealousy and how the night might unfold. We come back after the party to compare notes.

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In this episode, Anna and Aiden tackle the question of separate play in their open relationship. Anna proposes that, in order to deal with her own insecurities, Aiden hook up with a particularly attractive and adventurous single woman from their lifestyle group while she's away on work trips. The couple discusses feelings of jealousy, personal boundaries, and the tangled web of emotions that often come with ethical non-monogamy. Aiden recalls his previous experiences with separate play and its impact on his attraction to Anna.

You'll hear about Anna's erotic dream involving multiple partners and how these fantasies shape her views on their relationship. They also discuss real-life scenarios, including potential dates, setting boundaries, and the humor and awkwardness that come with communicating our desires openly. Join us for a raw, insightful, and sometimes humorous conversation that captures the essence of navigating the complexities of a modern, open relationship.

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In this episode, we dive into monogamous marriage conflict traps, advocating for the 'let them' philosophy of relinquishing control of others. We also update you on our journey getting to know the 'Smart-Amazon' couple as we brainstorm ways to build chemistry and ensure everyone feels comfortable. Anna gets excited for an upcoming playdate.

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Welcome back! In this episode, we dive deep into the world of lifestyle podcasts and apps, sharing our personal journey and experiences along the way. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride as we dip our toes into the waters of non-monogamy.

We kick things off by reminiscing about our initial forays into lifestyle podcasts, recounting how they opened our eyes to new possibilities and helped us redefine our relationship. From reading influential books like 'Sex at Dawn,' 'Polywise,' and 'The Ethical Slut,' to discovering the swinger and polyamory scenes, we encounter a host of fascinating couples and learned valuable lessons about communication, trust, and self-growth.

We share our thoughts on the importance of discussing fantasies, overcoming jealousy, and embracing compersion – that magical feeling of joy for your partner's happiness. We open up about some of the challenges we've faced, from discussing separate play to navigating the complexities of jealousy and insecurity. We discuss the highs and lows of dating apps like Kasadie, Feeld, and SDC, as well as Anna's preference for sober day dates. Join us!

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In this revealing episode, we dive deep into our journey of reconnecting after a significant breakup, highlighting the transformative power of humility and vulnerability, coupled with effective counseling. We describe the importance of finding a non-judgmental counselor experienced in ethical non-monogamy, recounting our challenging yet enlightening sessions. We share personal anecdotes about overcoming past relationship traumas, the healing process, and the profound realization of true love. This episode offers invaluable insights into building trust, the necessity of open communication, and the pivotal moments that strengthened our bond.

Whether you're navigating a complex relationship or seeking inspiration for your own love journey, this episode provides a heartfelt and candid look at the steps we took to rebuild and enhance our connection.

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