Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

Have ADHD? Why You Might Be An Unwitting Hijackal Magnet


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Toxic relationships are created when a partner exploits the vulnerabilities of the other. If you have ADHD tendencies, you may easily miss red flags as you pay attention to the charms, and are intrigued by the possibilities of the fake future they paint so readily.


Fear and shame also play a part you need to recognize. Hijackals have a honed sense of recognition of vulnerabilities. They are on high alert, looking for these to use to their advantage. You can be the most successful person and they'll see you as a challenge. Not good, at all!


Diann Wingert shares her insights and studies to help us understand why people with ADHD may not see toxic relationships clearly, and stay too long even though they are experiencing emotional abuse.



HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How ADHD affects your ability to see red flags when you meet someone new
  • Traits women with ADHD have that makes them more susceptible to toxic relationships
  • Why intuition sometimes fails to discern patterns of manipulation when ADHD is present
  • Why verbal abuse and emotional abuse are sometimes not enough to make someone with ADHD leave a narcissist
  • Reasons that people with ADHD fail to leave toxic relationships and to recognize emotional trauma


GUEST: DIANN WINGERT


Diann Wingert is a mindset and productivity coach for female entrepreneurs who identify with the traits of ADHD, officially diagnosed or not. During her 20-year career as a licensed psychotherapist, Diann saw many brilliant and ambitious women struggle with unidentified ADHD, including Diann herself. Since her own mid-life diagnosis, she now mentors women who are “driven but distracted” to get focused and overcome procrastination, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can craft a life and business they love.


Diann offers both individual and small group virtual coaching and mentoring to women all over the world. She is a dynamic podcast guest on the topics of ADHD in high ability women, the mental health challenges of entrepreneurship, self care for the self employed and how women can cultivate an entrepreneurial mindset.


GIFT FOR YOU: Wow! Diann is offering you three things at NO cost:

6 Steps to ADHD Mastery, The Driven Woman's Roadmap and the ADHD Signature Strengths Quiz.

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