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   Number 1: Ep 89 - Why does my partner freeze, shut down, or say the wrong thing when I'm falling apart?

   Why do they shut down when you're falling apart? Why do they say the exact wrong thing when you need comfort the most? In this episode, we step inside the aftermath of infidelity and unpack a question many betrayed partners silently ask: Why does the person who hurt me seem incapable of showing up now? We explore the emotional paralysis that often overtakes the unfaithful partner — the freezing, defensiveness, and withdrawal that can feel like a second betrayal. You'll hear what's really happening beneath the surface: crushing shame, terror of losing everything, and guilt so overwhelming it shuts down connection instead of repairing it. This conversation sheds light on why boundaries become confusing, why accountability feels inconsistent, and why your pain can feel unbearable for the person who caused it — even when they want to fix things. Most importantly, we discuss what actually helps move conversations forward, rebuild safety, and interrupt the painful cycles that keep couples stuck. If you're a betrayed spouse searching for clarity, validation, and a path toward healing — whether together or on your own — this episode offers insight you won't want to miss. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Program: https://healingbrokentrust.com/contact-us Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

   February 04, 2026·38min
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   Number 2: Ep 88 - Healing After Betrayal: Navigating the 10 Biggest Pain Points

   In this episode, we delve into the profound challenges faced by partners who have been betrayed. Discover the ten most significant pain points that arise after infidelity, from feeling unsafe and grappling with trickle truths to dealing with intrusive thoughts and the loss of self-worth. We share insights and practical steps to help you navigate these emotional hurdles and find a path to healing. Whether you're struggling with anger, grief, or the loneliness that betrayal brings, this episode offers a roadmap to reclaiming your life and rebuilding trust. Join us as we explore the complexities of betrayal and provide guidance for those seeking to heal and move forward. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Workshops: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast

   January 28, 2026·30min
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   Number 3: Ep 72 - 20 Things the Unfaithful Want the Betrayed To Know...But Don't Know How To Say

   Brad and Morgan outline 20 things the unfaithful partner want the betrayed partner to know but don't know how to say it. We can help you find your voice and that is the goal of this episode. To help you find the words you've been looking for. Listen to the very end because you'll have a chance to hear from other couples. Look for more resources at healingbrokentrust.com Start your transformation by joining our workshop and program at healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop

   October 13, 2022·40min
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   Number 4: Ep 90 - Why the Betrayed Struggle Without Answers

   Join me, Brad Robinson, LMFT as I dive into the complex emotions and challenges faced by betrayed partners in the aftermath of infidelity. In this episode, I explore why those who have been betrayed often struggle without answers and how the quest for truth is crucial for healing. Discover the common patterns and needs of betrayed partners, and learn why understanding the details of an affair is not about punishment but about restoring safety and rebuilding trust. Whether you're healing from broken trust or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into the journey towards recovery and the importance of honest communication. Speak with us about your situation Schedule a Discovery Call Couples Program: https://healingbrokentrust.com/contact-us Stop My Divorce: https://healingbrokentrust.com/stop-my-divorce Podcast Resources and the Core24 Episodes everyone needs to lay the foundation for healing completely: https://healingbrokentrust.com/podcast About Us: Brad Robinson, LMFT Brad lost his own family to divorce as a child. That early heartbreak didn't just shape him, it propelled him into a lifetime of helping others heal theirs. A licensed marriage and family therapist based in Tulsa, OK, Brad is an internationally recognized expert in affair recovery and a TEDx speaker. He has personally guided over 6,000 couples in one-on-one work and developed a multi-layered healing approach that integrates trauma, attachment, and relational repair. Morgan Robinson, MA Morgan brings both personal insight and professional training to the work. She knows what it's like to enter marriage carrying deep wounds — and what it takes to build confidence, connection, and resilience. A trauma-informed coach grounded in attachment theory, Morgan leads with empathy, clarity, and a commitment to transforming pain into growth.

   February 11, 2026·36min
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   Number 5: Ep 71 - 23 Things the Betrayed Partner Wants The Unfaithful Partner to Know After Affair(s) In Your Relationship And Marriage

   This episode is like a mini-letter to the unfaithful spouse. Our goal is to help you articulate many of the things you might be feeling but can't seem to put your finger on. Also, you may have heard about our workshops and master class programs… You may be listening to this wondering why would we join the Healing Broken Trust workshop and program? "We're already in counseling, or something else, and I mean Brad and Morgan cover everything they have to say in the podcast anyways, right?" Well not quite. First of all, if you're in counseling right now you still need the workshop. Individual counseling doesn't solve marriage issues. And I bet your marriage counselor is working on the marriage and missing all the glaring affair recovery issues you haven't yet dealt with. In addition to that…we deal with so much more in the program that we've never covered on the podcast. Such as: When sharing emotions is not enough, When being the healer doesn't solve the trust issues, Or when your spouse isn't helping you heal at all, When cutting off the affair partner isn't simple or straightforward in your situation, When you've decided to re-engage and work on the relationship but the underlying causes for the affair aren't dealt with, When you think you know why the affair happened and then you are given new information, When you have blind spots and can't see what you're missing, When you're not used to sadness so you do everything not to experience it, but in the process, you loose all access to intimacy. You're super positive, sure of the solution, thinking everything is explainable, but do you really understand why your spouse decided to look outside the relationship for some need to be met? What need were they trying to meet? These are just some of what we help couples deal with in our workshop and program. So go to healingbrokentrust.com now and join us for the next workshop before it fills up.

   September 28, 2022·34min
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