In this incredibly raw episode of Harder Than Life, Stephan Speaks, relationship coach, bestselling author, and emotional intelligence expert joins Kelly to break down modern dating struggles, self-sabotage, intimacy, and the exact process for finally healing your heart. This isn’t your typical dating talk. It’s a spiritual reset disguised as a relationship podcast.

“We don’t attract what we want. We entertain what we are and who we tolerate.”

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

🔥 Why modern dating feels so broken

🔥 The “illusion of options” and why it ruins real connection

🔥 Why most breakups are blessings in disguise

🔥 Stephan’s healing blueprint: The “Who Hurt Me” method & emotional detox

🔥 How to know if someone is actually ready for love

🔥 Why men often get unfairly labeled and what no one says about it

🔥 What real intimacy feels like

🔥 Questions to ask on a first date that actually matter

💬 What part of this conversation cracked something open for you? Drop your truth in the comments—we’re all healing forward together.

🔔 Subscribe now for real, raw, radically healing episodes with today’s boldest voices on relationships, healing, and growth.

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