Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women

274: How do you make sure you're not coming off as creepy? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]


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How do you know if you're being creepy? For many of our clients, the fear of making a woman uncomfortable -- or being seen as creepy -- can be debilitating or even paralyzing. These men are often concerned that they're "bad" just for wanting sex (hint: You're not. You're just human.).

If you've ever been afraid of being perceived as creepy or a pervert, you're not alone -- even men in relationships have this fear. Much of it stems from early childhood experiences, including religious trauma. And fortunately there's a lot you can do about this.

Here, we go into what it actually means to be creepy (including my own personal share of a bad experience I had with a man, vs. ones where I've felt safe and comfortable), as well as how you can start to own your own sexuality in a more healthy and straightforward way.

Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term committed relationship like a marriage, there's something here for you. Sex, self-acceptance, shame, and love are all connected.

Memorable quotes from this episode:

  • "I don't want to be a #MeToo guy."
  • "Healthy sexuality is a part of your humanity."
  • "There's often a shame match, where a man with shame attracts a shame-inducing partner."
  • "As men grow and reclaim parts of themselves that have been denigrated, they attract different kinds of women."
  • "I can have the kind of relationship I want!"
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If you're committed to breaking old patterns and transforming your sex & love life in a real and lasting way, we'd love to work with you. To see if there's a fit, book a call here

(https://evolutionary.men/apply/)

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