Change Signal

How Many Times Should You Fight Your Boss? Molly Graham


Listen Later

Discover why emotional "monsters" sabotage change projects, learn the "fight it three times" rule for managing upwards, and understand why grief is the most overlooked emotion in transformation work.

Molly Graham has scaled teams at Google and Meta, and now runs Glue Club for startup operators. She brings hard-won wisdom about the messy human side of change that most leaders pretend doesn't exist.

The conversation digs into why competing visions create "zebra-giraffe" disasters and how to craft clarity that actually sticks. Molly shares her mentor's brilliant approach to influencing stubborn bosses without burning bridges.

What I thought was most powerful? Her insight about work grief. Leaders race ahead to the future while their teams are still mourning what they're losing. It's the marathon effect — you've crossed the finish line while everyone else is still running the race.

Oh, and then there's Bob. Molly's personification of the emotional chaos that comes with any change, good or bad. Once you meet Bob, you'll never look at resistance the same way.

This isn't your typical change management playbook. It's real talk about the loneliness, emotion, and community that make or break transformation efforts.

Change Signal. Cut through the blather, the BS, and the noise to find the good stuff that works in change, transformation, and growth.

***

WHEN YOU’RE READY

🎧 A new episode every week (and sometimes two!)

The Change Signal newsletter. Short, practical, weekly

***

CONNECT

💼Connect on LinkedIn

***

SAY THANKS

💜Leave a review on Apple Podcasts

💚Leave a review on Spotify

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Change SignalBy Michael Bungay Stanier

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

11 ratings


More shows like Change Signal

View all
Coaching for Leaders by Dave Stachowiak

Coaching for Leaders

1,462 Listeners

Good Life Project by Jonathan Fields / Acast

Good Life Project

3,287 Listeners

Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais by Dr. Michael Gervais

Finding Mastery with Dr. Michael Gervais

1,669 Listeners

This Working Life by ABC listen

This Working Life

21 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,553 Listeners

Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik by Jim Kwik, Your Brain Coach, Founder www.KwikLearning.com

Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik

4,819 Listeners

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee by Dr Rangan Chatterjee: GP & Author

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

4,096 Listeners

How I Work by Amantha Imber

How I Work

129 Listeners

The Daily Stoic by Daily Stoic | Backyard Ventures

The Daily Stoic

4,790 Listeners

A Bit of Optimism by Simon Sinek

A Bit of Optimism

2,190 Listeners

Deep Questions with Cal Newport by Cal Newport

Deep Questions with Cal Newport

1,291 Listeners

Coaching Real Leaders by Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins

Coaching Real Leaders

652 Listeners

ReThinking by TED

ReThinking

612 Listeners

The Next Big Idea Daily by Next Big Idea Club

The Next Big Idea Daily

77 Listeners

HBR On Leadership by Harvard Business Review

HBR On Leadership

152 Listeners