Most women think their dating patterns come from bad luck, bad timing or a reflection of the “kind of men out there.”
But what if the pattern isn’t in the men at all?
What if the pattern is in you… specifically, in the identity you bring into relationships?

This week’s episode walks you through a real client story that will make you rethink everything you’ve ever believed about attraction, compatibility, and why you end up doing all the work.

You will hear about:

• A high-achieving, emotionally intelligent woman who kept dating the same man in a different body.
• The moment she realized she was once again planning, paying, pleasing and performing.
• Why “chemistry” can be a trap for women who learned to earn love.
• The hidden identity that makes successful women over-function in dating.
• What happens when you remove the identity that works for love and install one that simply receives it.
• The quiet dissolving of her old attraction patterns, without willpower or forcing it.
• The surprising shift in how her partner began showing up once she changed.

This episode will challenge you to ask yourself:

Are you attracting under-functioning men, or are you showing up as the identity that under-functions for them?

You’ll learn how identity-level work rewires your deepest relational patterns, makes receiving feel natural instead of risky, and eliminates your subconscious attraction to “potential” men who drain you.

If you’ve ever felt like:

• You are tired of doing everything
• You always attract men who need help
• You lose your softness around men you like
• You are stuck between longing for love and resenting the work of it

…this episode will feel like someone finally turned on the light in a room you’ve been stumbling through for years.

By the end, you’ll understand why the right men don’t see you as work.
They see you as a privilege, a prize, and an investment.
But they can only see it when you see it first.

Press play. Your future self will thank you. 

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