How to Be Patient

By Human ContentMedicine Health & Fitness Mental Health Education Self-Improvement

How to Be Patient episodes

April 13 Ask a Psychiatrist: The Grab Bag Special
Margaret and I decided to tackle the questions that have been circling our DMs, including the controversial continuum of harm reduction, where does "good enough" care end and "enabling" begin? We also touch on the complexities of diagnosing autism across genders, the "stolen valor" of internet neuroscientists, and why I’m convinced that oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) might sometimes just be a side effect of adults who’ve forgotten how to listen.

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April 06 Giving and Receiving Feedback with Paul Tran
I’m flying solo for most of this one while Margaret is off saving dolphins (or just finishing a hospital admission ), but I’ve brought in a heavy hitter to help me tackle one of the most awkward parts of medical training: feedback. Paul Tran, the creative force behind Alimentary School, joins me to discuss why the feedback we give and receive in the clinic usually, to put it bluntly, sucks.

We dive into the "Politeness Concept," where supervisors give a quick "good job" just to save face and get out of the room, leaving learners with zero actionable data. Paul introduces the concept of "Wise Feedback", 19 words that can completely change how a student engages with their work, and we break down the "Four T’s" of delivery: Tact, Timing, Intent, and Tone. From the trauma of childhood soccer critiques about our noses to the "glass-shattering" realizations of a former competitive figure skater, this episode is about turning subjective observations into meaningful coaching.

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1 hr 16 min
March 30 Coffee, Tea and Dementia
In this journal club episode, we break down the recent findings from a landmark (in my opinion) study on the associated risks between caffeine consumption and dementia risk. Spoiler alert! More coffee might actually be protective against dementia; however, we need to take these findings with a grain of salt (or creamer) and understand how the nuance of this information can help both our lives and our understanding of neurodegenerative diseases.

Zhang Y, Liu Y, Li Y, et al. Coffee and Tea Intake, Dementia Risk, and Cognitive Function. JAMA. 2026;335(11):961–974. doi:10.1001/jama.2025.27259

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1 hr 2 min
March 23 Speech and Psychiatry with Speech Talk’s Emily and Eva
A topic that we were silent on during our Aphasia episode was the importance of Speech-Language Pathologists in the care of patients with Aphasia and, more broadly, throughout different types of care for patients in the hospital, in rehab, and outpatient. Today, we are joined by SLPs and co-hosts of Speech Talk Eva Johnson and Emily Brady to ask all our questions about how SLPs approach cognition, dysphasia, and values in care. Check out their podcast (which is also part of the Human Content family!) at Speech Talk!

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1 hr 6 min
March 16 Existential Psychotherapy Part 3: Isolation
Spoiler Alert! The key to not feeling isolated is to (wait for it) be around other people! Humans are naturally driven social creatures, but the ways in which we attempt to run from isolation become the problem. In this episode, we discuss how isolation is an ever-present fear, how existential isolation differs from interpersonal and intrapersonal isolation, and how meaningful, balanced relationships can form to fill the void.
In our Patreon section, Margaret and I review some of Carl Rogers ' therapy film (play by play) in his humanistic approach to therapy with a central emphasis on relationship

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1 hr 3 min
March 09 DBT Case Studies with Expert Dr. Kiki Fehling
In the second part of our intro to DBT episodes, we welcome expert education and DBT clinician, Dr. Kiki Fehling. We talk about how Dr. Fehling found DBT, how her teaching made it to TikTok, and then get into cases about how to talk about DBT with patients and what an introductory session might sound like. In our Patreon section, we go further into some favorite exercises in DBT with Dr. Fehling.
Oh, Margaret also has to walk back an error she made on the previous DBT episode, and Preston gets to enjoy seeing Margaret be wrong.

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1 hr 3 min
March 02 Going Viral as a First Year Med Student with Amine
In this episode, I sit down with Amine (whyamino) a med student and content creator who recently went viral for his skits about engaging with patients from different cultural backgrounds. Due to pressure and complaints of “promoting stereotypes,” the content was eventually taken down. The audience feels some ambivalence about this, and it raises questions about portrayal and stereotypes, is their portrayal uniformly bad or can demonstrating a knowledge and nuance of a subgroup through humor be a way to demonstrate cultural and, by extension, clinical competency?

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40 min
February 23 Existential Psychotherapy Part 2: Freedom
Today Margaret and I take on our own freedom in today’s episode, which is part 2 of a 4-part series on Existential Psychotherapy. The existential postulate that we are all ultimately free to make our own decisions (and therefore must live with those decisions) can be a source of distress but also a path to the pursuit of a meaningful life - it all comes down to how you go about it. And we will chat about it all, freely.

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1 hr 10 min
February 16 DBT 101: Learning How to Regulate Your Emotions
In preparation for a more thorough DBT episode with experts in the field, Margaret leads us through a “DBT 101” covering the essentially axioms of dialectical behavioral therapy along with the pillars of mindfulness, emotional regulation, distress tolerance and interpersonal effectiveness.

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1 hr 2 min
February 09 How would bringing back long term psych care look? (and is it a good idea?)
In this episode, we explore the current political climate and the possibility of the return of institutionalized mental health care. Though this is not a political podcast (I think Preston says that 5 times) , all of medicine is political,and it’s important to discuss the overlap.
Tune in to the Patreon section to directly support the creators and for more discussion about how institutionalization is handled in other countries!

Citations:
Japanese Psych Care
https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7607734/#:~:text=other%20OECD%20countries-,The%20mean%20length%20of%20stay%20in%20psychiatric%20care%20beds%20in,highest%20percentage%20ever%20%5B11%5D
OECD Stats
https://www.oecd.org/en/publications/a-new-benchmark-for-mental-health-systems_4ed890f6-en/full-report/component-4.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0168851023002300?utm_source=chatgpt.com
https://www.scribd.com/document/632946247/WikerTS-2019-Supportedaccomodationforpeoplewithschizophrenia
Ruud T, Friis S. Community-based Mental Health Services in Norway. Consort Psychiatr. 2021 Mar 20;2(1):47-54. doi: 10.17816/CP43. PMID: 38601095; PMCID: PMC11003347.

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1 hr 3 min

About How to Be Patient

From the publisher's feed

You may have noticed a new trend lately. Everyone is loud and proud about their mental health struggles (and thank goodness)! For practitioners, this movement is as exciting as it is frustrating. As each mental health taboo falls by the wayside as it enters the cultural zeitgeist, a new aspect of our specialty thus emerges. One we just don’t have enough hours in the day to keep track of, let alone engage with. From better understanding our patients’ (and our own) relationships with their conditions in a changing world, it’s more important than ever that we learn: HOW TO BE PATIENT!