TITP120: Each of us has past experiences that we wish had never happened and most of us tend to hold onto the pain from those past experiences; blaming them for our disadvantages in life.  But what would your life be like if you learned how to properly blame those people and experiences that caused you pain to feel better? Janis examines why we hold onto past pain, the impact that it has on our lives and how we can learn to use our negative experiences from our pasts to our advantage.