September 19, 2023

How To Break Free from a Narcissist - Interview with Melanie Tonia Evans

52 minutes

Narcissistic abuse expert Melanie Tonia Evans shares her personal journey of surviving and healing from a toxic relationship with a narcissist. Melanie discusses the red flags to look out for when dealing with a narcissist, the lies we tell ourselves to stay connected to them, and the deep crisis that can arise from these relationships.

Melanie also talks about the importance of healing at a quantum level, going beyond traditional therapy, and accessing the subconscious mind to break free from the cycle of abuse.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS

Narcissistic abuse is characterised by a lack of empathy, cruelty, and manipulation. Narcissists often trigger and derail their victims in order to maintain control and shift blame onto them.

Recognising the warning signs of a narcissist can be challenging, as they often engage in love bombing and present themselves as the perfect partner. It is important to be cautious and take the time to get to know someone before becoming deeply involved with them.

Narcissists cannot change because their false self, which is constructed to feel superior and demand attention, prevents them from admitting any wrongdoing or taking responsibility for their actions. They are unable to access their true self and lack the capacity for genuine empathy.

People often tolerate narcissistic abuse due to cognitive dissonance, where they create justifications and excuses for staying in the relationship. These can include beliefs that the narcissist will change, that they are doing it for the children or finances, or that they have a soul contract to heal the narcissist.

BEST MOMENTS

"For a narcissist, what they want to do always is trigger you and derail you so that they can stand back and go, oh, you're the problem."

"I really thought God had blessed me with the man who was the man of my dreams… But yet, he had these insecurities and these triggers, which I just thought, oh, that's a bit unusual or weird, but you know, we love each other, that'll be fine."

"I was absolutely addicted to him like a heroin addict… People who understood what was going on were pretty much saying, well, what is wrong with you? Why do you keep going back to this person?"

"I'm going to love and heal us back to health. And I'm never leaving you again… From that moment on, I started life in a quantum way, from the inside out."

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Melanie Tonia Evans

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https://melanietoniaevans.com/blog/

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ABOUT THE HOST

Paul Sheppard

Paul Sheppard is a life-transforming anxiety and mindset coach, hypnotherapist, and host of the top ten Mindset Change podcast. He is on a mission with his holistic approach to help everybody set themselves free from limiting mindsets and feel less anxious and more empowered.

Paul coaches people 121 or in groups online around the world, and you can reach him here.

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