When you've been through a toxic relationship with a narcissist, you often come out of it looking a lot worse for the wear - and feeling that way, too.

But one way to speed up your recovery and start taking back your life is to rediscover your inner "goddess" or your inner "diva" - that part of you that makes you absolutely, irresistibly YOU - you feel me?

You know that you want to to change something, because something inside you feels a little twinge of jealousy every time you see a woman who seems totally put-together. You know the type - she makes "having it all" look like a breeze - and she looks freaking fabulous while she does it.

I know, you kinda want to hate her, don't you?

I know I did. But you know what I've learned over the years? A lot of times, when we think we hate someone, it's really because they have something WE wish we had, ourselves.

You want to know HOW SHE DOES IT. And you know what? I want to tell you.

If you close your eyes and think about the time in your life when you felt the sexiest, you probably remember the appreciative glances of men when you walked into a room, or the way your man would pull you a little closer when an attractive guy noticed you in a club.

You might recall the little tiny bit of satisfaction you get when you notice another woman giving you the evil eye because you look so incredible that she just can't stand it. Or maybe you just want to learn what that feels like.

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