This is, I believe, one of my most important episodes so far.We all have the desire to feel seen, safe and soothed in our emotions.Unfortunately, many of us did not get that… or did not get it consistently… from our parents or caregivers.I used to ignore this idea a lot, thinking our upbringing didn’t really matter.But, as I’ve done some of this work on my own, I’ve seen that our childhood has a MASSIVE impact on how we relate to our wife and our children.Learn YOUR attachment style (secure, ...

How To Feel More Secure In Your Marriage… And With Yourself

Helping high achieving Christian men have more intimate marriages. Start with episodes 1-4 for an introduction. Traditional marriage counseling, couples therapy, couples counseling and even Christian marriage counseling will tell you that a good marriage is based on compromise. Validating feelings. Sacrifice. I tried that for years. Unfortunately, it doesn’t work. That’s why most couples who go through marriage counseling are the same or worse off after. BUT, in my studies in neuroscience at BYU, MD training at UCLA, psychiatry residency, marriage coach training, and most importantly in my own marriage, I finally found what DOES work. Building strength. Spiritual, mental, emotional and sexual strength, while anchored in following Christian marriage principles. Strength is attractive. And, it feels great. It builds trust. Add to this the skills of communication and intimacy, and you get a marriage full of phenomenal mental, emotional and physical intimacy. And, you set the example for generations to follow. I applied this to my own marriage, I felt better than ever and had more connection and passion than I thought possible. I started teaching this to other men and couples and they were able to create mental, emotional and sexual intimacy faster than they thought possible. This even works for affair recovery and emotional affairs. Now it’s your turn. Become a strong, attractive man. Create a strong, passionate marriage.

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Think of 3 reasons why your wife is RIGHT to create distance from you.How have you been a poor choice for her?Then, work on those 3 reasons.Make yourself a better choice.And, for a complete system to make yourself a great choice, join Strong Men Strong Marriages.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.P.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emotional  intimacy with your wife, and create an amazing legacy ...

Thursday Challenge - 3 Reasons

I'd like to recommend the Jordan Harbinger Show. Jordan is a husband and father, and his show has recently featured some fascinating guests. Hope you enjoy checking it out.

Introducing the Jordan Harbinger Show

When you’re trying to save your Christian marriage…But your wife doesn’t seem to be trying…It can be very frustrating and defeating.You can feel lost and unsure of what to do.And, men often make significant mistakes when they try to save their marriage alone.Learn what those mistakes are…And what to do instead…In today’s episode.Watch on YouTube here. Dr. MikeP.S. If you’re a high achieving, professionally successful Christian man who is ready to create incredible sexual, mental and emot...

How to Save Your Christian Marriage Alone

If you’re trying to save your marriage, you are probably praying for help.And that is a good and proper thing to do.AND, it’s also necessary to do MORE than pray to save it.It’s like praying to become a doctor.You can pray for it…But unless you go to medical school…It won’t happen.The same is true here.Definitely pray for your marriage.AND do the things that make you a man who can CREATE a happy, thriving marriage.Learn what those are…And prayers I think will be the most useful for you…In tod...

Prayer to Save My Marriage

Probably the most effective prayer to save your marriage is this.Pray to feel God’s love for you at a DEEP level every day.As you FEEL that love from Him…It will FILL you…Make you less needy, more compassionate, and more loving…And therefore more attractive.As a bonus, pray to see and love your wife as God does too.This video and this book have been helpful for me to feel God’s love for me.Watch on YouTube here. (Lorena new link here for YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eY13pnVVwwo (Lo...

How To Feel More Secure In Your Marriage… And With Yourself

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