Can you de-center men and still want love? That's the question... and honestly, it's the reason this podcast exists.

In this episode, we're getting into what de-centering men actually means (hint: it has nothing to do with being bitter, giving up on love, or actually hating men), why so many of us have been quietly organizing our lives around men who don't even know we exist, and how the rise of conservative Gen Z men fits into all of this.

I'm sharing the story of my first real heartbreak at 20, what Mr. New Years taught me about men who want a partner but not the partnership, and the mindset shift that changed everything.

If you're a lover girl who's also exhausted by the idea of shrinking yourself for someone who hasn't even shown up yet, this one's for you.

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