A lot of people think if you argue in your relationship it means something is wrong, but relationship therapist and sexologist Lucille Shackleton says it’s actually a good thing - it just depends on how you fight.

In this ep Dee Salmin gets all the advice from Lucille on how to deal with conflict with your partner in a healthy way. 

SHOW NOTES: 

Lucille's Instagram

Lucille's book All In

Gottman Institute research on conflict 

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