Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

How to Know If Your Jealousy is Low-Key Killing Your Relationship


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Jealous? That's a big issue that can easily cause major relationship problems!


Have you already learned that? Are you ready to stop repeating that mistake? Great!


Jealousy is the green, fire-breathing monster that is lying in wait to devour your relationships, and hurt your heart. When you want to stop living in fear of being hurt, you can. I can help. You want to be free of jealousy because it uses far too much energy with no good return on that investment.


Are you suspicious?

Are you accusatory?

Are you smothering?

Are you too often blaming and shaming?


Are you tired of living with all that fear? I hope so. It's too hard on you...and quite unnecessary. You may not know that yet, but it's true. It's unnecessary.


Dr. Phil is correct when he says, "Jealousy is a poorly disguised need for power and control." Do you see that?


It's just what you don't want to happen to you, right? You don't want someone who has a need for power and control over you. But, your jealousy may be a misguided effort to have power and control over another human. That's TOO MUCH WORK!


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You deserve to create a life that is calm, peaceful, creative, and productive. You can't have that when you're jealous. You're too involved with your fears about what another person may be doing. You're actually giving away your time, energy, and well-being to an idea that may not be true. Now, that doesn't sound like something you want to do any longer, does it?


Listen to today's episode, and take it all in. It could be your ticket to a much more peaceful life.


And, if by chance, you're wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, grab my free ebook, How to Spot a Hijackal® at Hijackals.com . You need to know what's up. Hijackals have to believe they are always right, and the smartest person in ever room, at all time. So, they give you false messages about yourself. Time to examine those and stop believing them.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • Recognize that you are jealous for a reason that likely has no relationship to your current relationship
  • Fear of being abandoned can run--and ruin--your life
  • Questions you need to ask yourself about your jealousy
  • Why you may be afraid you're being cheated on
  • What you need to think about to stop the green-eyed monster from ruining your life and relationship


YAY! Step up today and don't let anyone put you down ever again. OK?


If you need help with this, I'm here for you. Let's talk soon. Want my help? I make it easy and accessible for you to have your first one-hour session with me for only $97.


Make positive changes NOW.


Big hugs,

Rhoberta


Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,

The Relationship Help Doctor

ForRelationshipHelp.com


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You can also listen to the last 32 episodes of Save Your Sanity on Mental Health News Radio Network. That's a great place to get in-depth insights for shoring up mental and emotional health of all kinds.


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