Here's how to talk to girls online: Take a look at their online dating profile, craft a personal first message, and send it. But wait. There's so much more. Your approach depends on what you are looking for. Do you want to give online dating a shot because you want a girlfriend or do you want to have a few friends with benefits? Here you can find messages (and the replies I got) I sent to girls on various dating sites: https://www.globalseducer.com/category/international-dating-sites-reviews/