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What exactly is Toxic Masculinity?
How does someone develop the issue of Toxic Masculinity? 
What can you do if you have an issue with Toxic Masculinity or know someone who has? 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I explore the issue of Toxic Masculinity. 
This is an issue that is discussed a lot in the media at the moment and the impact that it has on society. 
But how does someone develop this issue and what can they and we do to deal with this? 
What is the psychology behind Toxic Masculinity? 

In this episode I explain what Toxic Masculinity is, how this issue develops and how it is maintained. 
I talk about how to prevent this issue from occurring and especially the  responsibility male members of society have in enabling change within the younger generations. 
As always, this  podcast is about hope and I discuss ways that you can deal with the issue of Toxic Masculinity. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Do you feel you have Burnout?
Is Burnout something that you are concerned about, for you or for someone you care about? 
What exactly is Burnout and is it really such a big deal?

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of Burnout.    
Burnout is a serious issue, creating poor physical and mental health for the person who has it. 
Burnout is not  something to be taken lightly, as it can have drastic implications for the person's quality of life, relationships and career,   
Burnout can sadly cause some people to feel suicidal and also struggle with addiction problems. 

In this episode I explain what Burnout means, the symptoms to look out for and how someone may develop an issue with it. 
I talk about how to cope if you have Burnout and ways to stop yourself from getting it in the first place. 
As always, this  podcast is about hope and I discuss ways that you can manage the issue of Burnout.  

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Have you been told you have an issue with Narcissism? 
Do you have someone in your life that you believe has an issue with Narcissism?
Is there a Narcissist that is causing chaos in your life? 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of Narcissism.    
Someone with the issue of Narcissism  will struggle with their relationships and may find that they are frequented isolated by people. 
The issue of Narcissism is a serious one, as it can create destructive and manipulative behaviors such as bullying and coercive control.    
Narcissism can cause mental health problems such as depression and anxiety, both for the Narcissist and the people who have to deal with them,  

In this episode I explain what Narcissism means and how someone may develop an issue with Narcissism. 
I talk about how to cope if you have someone in your life that has an issue with Narcissism. 
As ever, this podcast is about hope and I discuss ways that you can manage the issue of Narcissism. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Are you living with the pain of a broken heart?
Have you been dealing with the end of a relationship that you didn't want to finish?
Does your broken heart cause you to find life a struggle to live? 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of heartbreak.    
A broken heart can happen to any of us and for lots of different reasons. 
We can suffer from heartbreak when we are adjusting to a difficult life-event such as the end of a relationship, someone we love dying or when your children leave home. 
Heartbreak can make life hard to live as everyday we feel overwhelmed by negative emotions. 
Heartbreak can cause mental health problems such as depression and anxiety. 

In this episode I explain what happens in our body and brain when we experience heartbreak. Why does it hurt so badly? 
I talk about why heartbreak happens and what you can do should this happen to you or someone you care about. 
As ever, this podcast is about hope and I discuss ways that you can heal from the pain of heartbreak. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Do you feel insecure about some aspect of yourself?
Do you find it hard to accept yourself for all that you are?
Does insecurity cause you to feel sad, anxious or depressed?  

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of insecurity.   
We can all feel insecurity and managing it is not always easy. 
We may feel anxious, scared and sad about some parts of who we are and find these hard to live with. 
Insecurity can leave us feeling we are not good enough and we can negatively compare ourselves to others, 
We may become desperate for attention from others so we can feel good about ourselves. 

People with an issue of insecurity can find it hard to be in a relationship and become needy and possessive because they feel insecure about themselves.  
Dealing with our insecurities is vital so that they don't hold us back from living our life on our own terms. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Do you find it hard to express your emotions and feelings?  
Do you try to control your feelings because you are afraid to appear weak?
Have you been told that you are emotionally repressed?  

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of control.   
Control can be used as a way to deal with feelings we don't like and are afraid to express. 
We may feel embarrassed, ashamed or guilty about our feelings and so use control to stop ourselves experiencing those negative feelings. 
We can end up mentally and psychically unwell as out body tries to cope with all that unexpressed and repressed feeling and energy. 
We may never learn how to emotionally regulate and so be prone to over-reacting to small things. 

People with an issue of control can struggle to be in healthy relationships, have addiction problems and no surprises be emotionally repressed. 
Having a healthy relationship with our feelings is vital as this is a relationship that we can't break up with and control keeps this relationship unhealthy. 

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Suicide rates in England for 15-19 year olds are the highest they have been in 30 years.
The loss of any young person to suicide is utterly tragic and obviously devasting to their family, friends and community. 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of teenage suicide. 
I'm honoured to be joined by Ben West. 
In 2018, when Ben was 17, his younger brother Sam who was 15 died by suicide. 
Ben and I talk honestly and openly about Sam, his mental health and his death. Ben discusses the impact this had on him and his family and how he coped in the aftermath of such an incredible loss. 

Ben is one of the most engaged mental health campaigners in the UK, committed to making real change around mental health in our society. He campaigns endless, lobbying the government to create positive and meaning change around mental health policies and services. In 2022 Ben wrote his first book , "This Book Could Save Your Life - Breaking the Silence Around the Mental Health Emergency." 

This episode as ever has hope as it's focus, and Ben talks about his story as a means to provide support and hope to the listeners. 
I appreciate that talking about suicide in teenagers is a frightening topic for many, however it is for that very reason that we need to talk about it. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Are you someone who is living with a diagnosis of Autism?
Do you think you may have Autism? 
Are you a family member, partner or friend of someone who has Autism? 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of Autism. 
There can be a lot of misunderstanding, confusion and misinformation around Autism,   leading to people struggling to make sense of what is happening and how to get help. 

In this episode I'm joined again by Dr Giovanni Giaroli, Consultant Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychiatrist.  Dr Giaroli is the founder and medical director of  the renowned  Giaroli Centre on Harley Street in London.  He is a medical Doctor specialising in Autism across the lifespan (from childhood to adulthood), plus other mental health conditions.  Dr Giaroli's deep expertise has lead him to practice as a visiting consultant for various adolescent and adult units (outpatient and inpatient) at the prestigious The Priory Hospital North London, The Priory Hospital Roehampton, and the Nightingale Hospital Marylebone, London.

He is also a corresponding member of the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (AACAP) and has published in International Journals on Psychopharmacology in children and adults and has chaired and presented at many international conferences on  Autism. 

We discuss together Autism as two mental health professionals  (a psychologist and a psychiatrist)  who treat this condition. 
We explore how Autism develops, what happens in an Autistic brain, how it is assessed and treated.  
This episode is essential listening for anyone who is living with Autism or who thinks they may have it. It is also important information for family members, partners or friends of people who have Autism. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them. 

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Do you struggle with Anorexia?
Are you concerned that someone you know may have an issue Anorexia?
Are you a family member or friend of someone living with Anorexia?  

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of Anorexia.   
I'm joined by Dr Adrienne Key, (Consultant Psychiatrist) who has spent over 25 years in both the NHS and private sector and now works as a partner in the Chelsea and Harley Street Eating Disorder Service. Dr Key held the position of Senior Lecturer at the medical school and Consultant Psychiatrist at the internationally renown St Georges Eating Disorder service in London for several years.

Anorexia can affect men and women and is diagnosed in children, adolescents and adults. For some people, they maybe fighting this issue their whole life,  Sadly, Anorexia can take the life of the person, making it the mental health condition with the highest death rate. 

There are many reasons why someone may develop Anorexia and it needs to be understood in order to be treated. 
Anorexia is a serious issue, however it is treatable and recovery is possible.
Please do share this episode with someone who may have an issue with Anorexia or with someone who needs support living with someone with Anorexia. 

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Are you regularly using recreational drugs and this has now become a problem for you?
Are you using drugs as a coping mechanism to deal with your life and feel trapped?
Are you concerned that someone you care about does or may have a problem with drugs? 

In the latest episode of ' I Have Issues,' I discuss the issue of drugs. 
People who have an issue with drugs can struggle with managing the impact of that in their life, it can and does cause chaos. 
Friends and family of the person with a problem with drugs will also struggle to deal with the impact of the person's drug use and living with this can be incredibly challenging, 

In this episode, I'm joined again by esteemed Consultant Psychiatrist, Dr William Shanahan. Dr Shanahan is the Medical Director at The Priory Hospital Roehampton, London and Clinical Director across Priory Group’s Addiction Services in the UK. He began his UK medical career as a registrar in the Priory Roehampton in 1987. He is an expert in this area and offers invaluable insights into the issue of drugs. 
We discuss why people may develop an issue with drugs,  what drugs does to the body and brain and how to treat the issue of drugs.

Drug addiction can cause misery for the person who is addicted, leading to mental and physical health problems and in some cases death.
Family and friends can feel helpless and hopeless as to how to support the person who is addicted. 
As ever, this podcast is about hope and the ability to manage difficult issues in our lives. We discuss how drug addiction can be treated and how people can and do recover.
Please do listen to and share this podcast episode if drug use is an issue for you or someone you care about. 

I'm an adolescent and adult chartered psychologist for the past two decades. This is a completely free and independant podcast, non-sponsored and ad-free to support you with your mental health. Please support this podcast by sharing and rating it. We all have issues, so let's talk about them.