This week, Stoya and Rich answer a letter from a woman who’s worried about her husband’s secret habit, and offer suggestions for oral sex to a letter writer who has a unique problem. 

Mentioned in the episode:

Sex, God, and the Conservative Church by Tina Schermer Sellers

Is Porn Addiction a Real Thing?

Moody Bitches by Julie Holland

“TMJ and Intimacy” by S. Michael Plaut

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Production by Chau Tu.

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