October 01, 2025

Individuality at the Helm: Building Teams, Celebrating Wins, & Staying True to You (ft. Captain Gervy Alota, Warship Commander, Husband & Dad)

1 hour 23 minutes

“Who are you? What do you want out of life? How do you plan to get there?” These are the three questions Captain Gervy Alota asks all his Sailors, and they capture the essence of his leadership philosophy.

In this episode, Kellie sits down with Captain Gervy Alota: a god-fearing man, son of a Navy Chief, Naval Academy graduate, former Navy football captain, husband, Navy Outreach Director, and leader of over 245k Instagram followers. They discuss his journey commanding ships, connecting with Sailors during the COVID-19 pandemic, and leaning into individuality to make a difference in the Navy.

Captain Alota shares his personal motto—“Win every day. Be great.”—and discusses the leadership lessons that guided him throughout his career. He explains how to use social media to connect and inspire, the importance of leaning into your individuality, and how building a smart team and relying on others’ strengths can make a difference. He talks about dreaming big, making consequential decisions when stakes are high, setting high standards, and celebrating wins to build morale and culture, all while balancing discipline with fun. Captain Alota emphasizes the importance of asking the right questions to guide personal and professional growth, staying grounded and appreciating your roots, and empowering people to chase both mission success and their personal goals.

Stay Lit, Lead Bold: Navy Leadership Lessons You Can Apply. This conversation is packed with lessons on leadership, accountability, and inspiring others, showing how to serve with excellence while staying authentic and impactful.

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Show Notes~

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