Infinite Receiving

Hello hello my gorgeous human being

Oh, I loved this conversation!! There's something that is just super precious to me when I get to interview my friends on the podcast and in this episode, I get to share so many golden nuggets for those of you who are in relationship or preparing to be in relationship.

You are about to hear from Mel Wells, my good friend. We've known each other for over a decade. She is a two time hay house author. She is an expert when it comes to feminine energetics. And some of this conversation is a little controversial, maybe a little bit triggering. And that's why I love it. I love, love it and I hope you will too!

If you are looking to develop your relationship with receiving and the feminine, particularly through the lens of relationship, you're going to freaking love this episode. So without any further ado, let's get on with the show.

You can still get your hands on my brand new book Infinite Receiving, right here..

Sit back and enjoy!

Quotes

"When we mother our partners, don't be surprised when they start behaving like children because that's how we are treating them."

"I always felt underappreciated, not seen, and was always wondering why he didn't initiate more, why he didn't give me more of his time, why he wasn't proposing, why he wasn't committing to me."

"To reclaim those feminine powers in the way that you were designed makes you an infinitely more powerful being, not a weaker version of yourself."

Highlights

43:45 And so becoming a woman who is embodied in my sexuality but doesn't lead with it or doesn't kind of use it to hurt people, I think, is the healing of the lover archetype, and a woman who is not afraid to be seen and a woman who takes up space in her body is the lover archetype. But then the shadow of that is a constant thirst for more validation

27:45 And so if we don't want them to behave like children and we want them to behave like men and leaders, then we must see them as that and treat them as such, which means respecting them, which means honoring them, which means asking them for advice, support, actually trusting them and letting them, right. The biggest thing that comes between women and their men actually like leading is they don't let them.

13:53 And so I said to myself, I heard a voice from God literally saying, well, if that's how you would act if you were a mother, why won't you give that to yourself before you become one? And that started my whole journey.

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Hello hello you gorgeous human being

The idea of living my life without a burning desire to evolve and create more and grow more feels like living dead to me, and so I am excited to talk to you today about thinking bigger!

Toward the end of last year things felt sticky, and now I cannot remember the last time I felt SO lit up in my business and so alive.

And how did I make that change? Listen in and find out!

Don’t forget you can still get your copy of Infinite Receiving right here.

Quotes

"Fast forward 6 months, I don't think that I felt this on fire and this alive and this lit up."

"I am taking wildly imperfect action, but action is being taken."

"A lot of these posts were from peers and acquaintances that I have worked alongside over the last decade that ultimately had given up on the dream."

Highlights

05:11 And what it made me also realise is that once again, there is a really big difference between intellectually understanding and saying that you are going to go big and now's the time and you are definitely up for thinking bigger. And this is my goal. There's a huge difference in saying this is my goal and then taking action in alignment with the goal.

12:01 That's how you get to feel when you're lit up, because you're setting yourself big juicy goals that you have to force yourself to grow into.

14:26 Your ability to think big is directly related to you understanding and living from this principle of knowing that faith plus action equals miracles.

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Hello hello you gorgeous human!

Hold tight because I am about to introduce you to somebody that I know you are going to want to know!

It is my great pleasure to share with you an old friend, old client, an absolute kick ass entrepreneur who is forging a whole new path when it comes to mindset and mentorship and manifesting and strategy.

We talk transformation, the trials and tribulations of growing up as the only daughter of first generation immigrant parents, the masks we all wear but most especially Asian women and more.

So grab your cuppa and let’s get to it.

If you have not got your copy of Infinite Receiving, my bestselling book, you can do that right here

Quotes

"I truly believe in transformation because I have experienced it and embodied it."

"Growing up, we didn't know what our true identity was because we had so many different masks."

"I'm a big believer of sharing from the scar, not the wound."

"Success for me last year was time out."

Highlights

09:49 I know it sounds really cliche, but I've come from a position where if you look at my life now, this wasn't meant to be the plan for me.

28:05 I think sometimes you do really outgrow people as well that aren't on that journey and don't have that expansive mindset.

28:20 And then when people see you doing all these things, I think, like, at my event a few weeks ago, we had, like, bangra music and we're all, like, dancing and going crazy, which would be completely unimaginable. Like, 40 years ago, someone would have probably come along and sabotaged that event. Or maybe not 40, but like, 50 to 60 years ago, that wouldn't have happened. Asian women wouldn't have traveled to London to be at an asian woman event, probably without their husbands

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Hello hello you gorgeous human being!

I am here with one of my fave little quick and dirty ones for you today!

I have a question for you, and it’s an important one. The question I have for you is, are you feeling lit up by your business?

And the reason this is so freaking important is that you spend way too much of your life in your business, thinking about your business, being on your business, strategizing about your business, wishing your business was something, wanting to create something in your business.

It’s always ON YOUR MIND! This is the curse of the entrepreneur.

And so when you ask yourself the question, does it light you up?  What is the answer

And, don’t forget you can get your copy of Infinite Receiving right here

Enjoy!

Quotes

"I'm tired of hearing myself moaning about it. I'm just going to do this differently. And from that decision, when there is enough intention behind it, guess what? You do. "

"It feels exciting to listen to the version of me who has created what it is that I desire to create."

"I speak my goals and desires into existence every single day. "

Ways to work with me

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Hello hello you gorgeous human being!

I am so excited for you to hear this episode. I am speaking with my friend Ben Bidwell. If you don’t know Ben, he is a human potential coach and a breath work facilitator.

As you may expect this conversation runs SO deep, so much that in parts I had full body tingles.

I adore being able to chat with a guy about all things masculinity from a really beautifully soft and open and vulnerable perspective. And let me tell you, Ben is practising vulnerability and authenticity in a way that feels so enriching and fulfilling to witness.

So, without further ado…let’s get to it.

A reminder that you can get my book, Infinite Receiving, here.

Quotes

"So if I'm constantly chasing happiness, then where am I going to get to. I'm fighting against the natural tide of this world."

"When we're talking about love, I don't want to rationally understand it."

"We are set up in a world that doesn't make it easy to live in."

Highlights

07:18 And there's better girls, there's better parties, and I can now travel more, and it's all better until I've reached a point where it was like, I'm. What now? Is that it? Am I just highly ambitious? Do I need more girls, more travel, better parties? Because this is kind of running a bit boring now.

42:30  I want us to experience life, not do life, experience it. And we do so little of the experiencing now.

46:06 I know this is obvious to us all, but I don't seek any kind of perfection. And I certainly don't seek any kind of perfection in the relationship. What I do want to be able to do is to talk about it, to be soft enough, to be vulnerable enough, to be open enough, to be able to have conversations rather than reactive to those things. And that's all I ask for.

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Hello hello darling one! I am coming to you just after my 2nd book launch week. Yes me, Suzy Ashworth, is now a 2 times published author - whoop!

And when I look back, I can't believe that it was only last week, because there are so many stories I could tell you about how I was feeling, what I did, what my experience was like. It's just wild.

I feel really deeply proud that my work is now out in the world, not just once, but twice. It feels just super incredible and today I am sharing how I have felt and also 5 juicy tips for you to use when you write YOUR book, and although they are about writing a book, actually you can apply them to really any content you create.

You can get your copy of Infinite Receiving right here.

Enjoy!

Quotes: 

• "It gets to be so much fun when we change the energy to something which is abundance lead, as opposed to result led."
• "Your chapter one should be juicy."
• "When it comes to manifesting, I learned very early on in my co creation career that we always want to have a goal beyond the goal."

Highlights:

• 7.44 And so my viewpoint was, Suzy, if you are the only person who ever reads this book, but you understand, and you master living from the pillar of infinite love, you master living from the pillar of infinite greatness, you master living from the pillar of infinite support, and you master living from embodying infinite conscious co-creation, you will change thousands, if not hundreds of thousands, maybe even millions of lives.
• 15.54 Can I treat every opportunity as just a seed? The reason that's so powerful is it detaches me from needing to experience the result in real time in order to feel complete, in order to feel like this is worth it.
• 5.33 So if you followed along when I was writing, you will have heard me have several existential crises, like, I don't think it's good enough. I don't know what the heck I'm doing. We have to rewrite this. We need to start this again. Even when I recorded the audiobook, I was like, it's not good enough. And how I moved through all of those moments was to remember one thing. I was writing this book with one person in mind.

Ways to work with me

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Faith + Action = Miracles

Who recognises the badge of honour of being “busy” SO BUSY!

If you do, you're going to love this episode that I recorded with Tamu Thomas. We talk everything around the subject of women who work too much.

Tamu and I come at things from quite a different perspective on the surface of things, but when you lift the hood, we have so many shared perspectives and values around how to help you empower yourself to create more of the life that you want, the work that you want, how to ask for more of what it is that you desire.

We talk about pleasure. We talk about the nervous system, we talk about safety. We talk about love. We go into all of the ins and outs, and I know that you are going to love this episode. So without any further ado, here is the episode.

While you are here do NOT forget you can order my book, Infinite Receiving right here.

Quotes

"I felt like I was always scraping the energetic barrel."

"Our nervous system shapes our beliefs. Our beliefs shapes how we take up space and what we want in the world."

"When you are cultivating a nervous system of love and you're creating loving environments and loving experiences, that's a huge sign of safety for your nervous system."

"I want women not to give themselves a hard time, because they're trying to do it all so they can slow down and understand if I'm going to be creating these wonderful things, this is the support I need to have in place."

Highlights

04:34 And I remember looking at my daughter and thinking, I'm always working too much wink, and I feel like I'm constantly scraping the bottom of the barrel of my energy to be able to show up for you as a parent, there was not a lot of joy in my life.

17:32 All of us human beings are cyclical in our nature. And people who menstruate are especially cyclical in our nature. So what we can do in our ovulatory phase and what we can do in our luteal phase aren't the same.

27:42 So my daily habits, I find that really hard. But I allow others the supreme pleasure of giving to me, of supporting me. And I don't make myself wrong for that. I don't call myself high maintenance. I need what I need. I want what I want. And I build mechanisms within my life, within my work, to ensure that I can have those things, because they make me a better person.

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Faith + Action = Miracles

I am BACK! It’s been a minute since you have had a solo Suzy episode. For those of you who have missed me, I have missed me too.

I have so much I want to share with you, 2023 was quite the year and I have entered 2024 feeling excited and expansive and ready to go.

For those of you who have felt like things just aren’t going to plan, I have a special message for you in here today.

Plus I’m, sharing the surprising way writing my new book, Infinite Receiving made me feel - you can get your copy of that right here and jump on in with us.

So, without further ado - sit back and enjoy me!

Quotes 

• I keep looking back at 2023 and going, oh, my God, I found you hard, genuinely, and I've got so much to say about 2023.
• So much of entrepreneurship is staying in the room - stay in the room.
• I do believe that clarity comes from taking action. You get the feedback.

Highlights 

• 6.14 "So even though there have been really tough moments, even though there's been lots of grief, lots of pain, all of those things, overall, even when it was happening, I felt like I navigated it from a real place of power and potency." 
• 14.04 "So I was saying certain things, and they (my clients) were like, you know what? Actually, no. That doesn't fit in alignment. And it's like, yes, like that. We're here who really as coaches, it's not about us having the blueprint for you. We're here to ask you questions that activate your own sense of knowing, trust and intuition about how to move forward."
• 18.08  "People are like, new year, and all of that stuff, and I hate it. I was like, I am grabbing onto that with two hands. Like, there is a beautiful, energetic portal here that we get to take advantage of. And I am."

Ways to work with me

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Faith + Action = Miracles

I remember the first time I interacted with today’s guest - it was NOT pretty but it changed my life!

There was some ugly crying, but there was also a liberation that was activated that I am truly and eternally grateful for and so please let me introduce my guest today, Dr Erin.

Doctor of Divinity and a world-renowned thought leader. She is committed to helping you become your highest self and manifest your dreams. You’ll love this one, promise.

You can get your hands on my brand new book right here, until then settle down and listen in!

Quotes 

• I feel like we're all having to hone down and spirit our higher self is like, pick, baby. You know what I mean? 
• I really believe if you want to manifest and have that infinite abundance, the trauma is the core work to really release the limited beliefs.
• And you have this fantasy that one day it's all going to be perfect. That is the biggest lie.

Highlights 

• 5.26 I think we have to each ask ourselves, where do I shine the most? Where is it that I get more energy instead of having to do something in our business and that's what we're teaching, but we're constantly, even as the leaders, we're having to hone our skills and be able to pivot over and go, I tried that. No, not so much.
• 9.22 We have to love the dark and the light, and to love our businesses. We have to love the hard things and the beautiful things. And I believe that's really the secret to life.
• 12.40 They're like, what are you trying to seek? Are you ever going to get there? What do you mean? It's the whole journey of always expanding, always growing, for sure.

Ways to work with me

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Faith + Action = Miracles

There are times in life when you meet someone and it just MAKES SENSE! Like, yes this is my soul sister.

I felt this way the moment I met my guest, fellow Hay house author (and do not forget you can get MY new book Infinite Receiving here), Simone Heng and I think you will too.

We talk about authentic connection. We talk about connection with self. We talk about loneliness and really what it takes and what it's going to take in this modern world to thrive.

Enjoy!

Quotes

"Rapport is where other people perceive us to be more like us than they may think."

"So there is being alone, where you feel lonely, and then there is solitude, which is being alone out of desire."

"When I lived in Dubai, I once dated the male version of me. Like, even down to ethnicity, occupation, it was a disaster."

Highlights

47:27 If my dad didn't create relationships for those customers. We didn't go to school.

08:46 Hence the existential crisis, because I live in like the hq of the world for people swapping business cards. And so now I feel like Neo. I do look a little Keanu Reeves with my short hair. I do feel a bit like I'm neo and that I'm in the Matrix

17:43 I'm out of my own body. I'm not within the self because it's somatic, right? So if your body's not in a good state, your self connection is shot. And so I'm making decisions when I'm dating, when I'm flying, where I'm outside of my natural habitat, I'm outside of myself

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Faith + Action = Miracles