Have you ever wondered what it truly means to date with intention—and not just to find a partner, but to rediscover playfulness, joy, and your own self-worth?  In Episode 409 of The Charisma Quotient, "Intentional Dating at Any Age: Coaching with Kimmy" Kimmy does a live coaching session with  Joni, a vibrant 69-year-old woman embarking on a new chapter after a major life transition—moving to a new country and reimagining her relationship with dating.

 

Kimmy delves into the common blocks that can make dating later in life intimidating: fear of rejection, comparison to the past, negative self-image, the myth that it's "too late," and the tendency to take dating way too seriously. Through honest coaching and playful perspective shifts, Kimmy helps Joni explore and reawaken her inner "Pixie"—her fun, flirty, confident self who's ready to be seen, connect, and have fun.

During their candid conversation, Kimmy helps Joni unpack the roots of her old patterns, including childhood wounds, self-limiting beliefs, and habits of prioritizing others at the expense of herself. Together, they outline simple, actionable steps for Joni (and listeners!) to practice playful, pressure-free flirting, embrace visibility, and lean into joyful social experiences. Whether you're dating again after a long relationship, navigating new cultures, or just looking to shake off dating dread, this episode shows that it's never too late to embrace connection with intention—and that dating, at any age, can (and should!) be fun.

 You'll hear:

• Kimmy's framework for intentional dating and "dating yourself"

• The five common obstacles that keep people from enjoying dating later in life

• How childhood experiences and limiting beliefs shape our approach to love

• Practical advice for reigniting your playful, flirty side 

• The importance of self-image, confidence, and loving where you're at—now

If you're ready to start dating with intention, join Kimmy's virtual speed dating event on September 17th and get real-time feedback and meet new people. Sign up at www.stophatingdating.com.

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Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣

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