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What does betrayal trauma actually feel like?
Not everyone who experiences infidelity develops trauma. Some people experience grief, anger, and sadness, which are painful, but normal.
But for others, it feels like their entire sense of safety, reality, and identity has collapsed.
In this video, I break down the 4 major signs of betrayal trauma, how they show up in daily life, and how to tell the difference between normal heartbreak and a nervous system stuck in threat mode.
If you’ve been cheated on and you’re wondering:
- “Why can’t I stop thinking about it?”
- “Why do I feel crazy?”
- “Why can’t I relax even when nothing is happening?”
- “Is this normal?”
This will help you understand what’s really going on.
And more importantly, why time alone doesn’t fix it.
If this resonates, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Book a call with me below if you want help going deeper than coping strategies and actually resolving the root of the trauma.
⬇️ Apply to work with me: https://jordanapodaca.com/#free-call
📩 Subscribe for more content on betrayal trauma, infidelity recovery, and emotional healing.
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0:00 – Betrayal Trauma vs. Normal Grief
1:01 – The Moment of Discovery (Why It Feels Like Shock)
2:14 – Sign #1: Intrusive Thoughts You Can’t Control
3:35 – Sign #2: Hypervigilance & Constant Scanning
5:32 – Sign #3: Emotional Whiplash & Dysregulation
6:30 – Sign #4: Losing Trust in Your Own Perception
7:33 – How to Tell If It’s Trauma (Not Just Heartbreak)
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JJA Consulting LLC • Fully insured through Alternative Balance LLC • Based in Michigan • Sessions via Zoom • Confidential and results-based.
Disclaimer
Jordan is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. His services are for educational and coaching purposes only and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental or medical condition. Individual results vary. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please reach out to a licensed mental-health provider or emergency services.
Summary of Terms and Conditions
Educational Purpose Only: Coaching and hypnosis sessions are for personal development and educational purposes only.
Not Therapy or Medical Treatment: These services are not a substitute for counseling, psychotherapy, psychiatric, or medical care.
Results Vary: Individual results vary depending on many factors. No specific outcome is guaranteed.
Your Responsibility: You are responsible for your participation, decisions, and well-being before, during, and after sessions. You agree to remain coachable and follow the Practitioner's lead regarding session spacing.
No Refunds: All sales are final except as required by law. We commit to working with you until the specific result is achieved, provided you remain committed to the process.
Confidentiality: All private sessions are confidential except where disclosure is required by law.
Intellectual Property: All session materials and methods are owned by JJA Consulting LLC and may not be shared or reproduced.
Code of Conduct: We reserve the right to refuse or end services for disruptive, abusive, or unsafe behavior.
Results-Based Model: You are purchasing a result, not a time-based subscription. We do not offer weekly check-in calls or "venting" sessions. We meet only when necessary to achieve the specific result.
By scheduling or purchasing services, you agree to the full Terms and Conditions. You further agree that reasonable updates to these Terms to clarify the spirit of the agreement may apply to our engagement.
FULL TERMS:
https://jordanapodaca.com/#terms
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By Jordan Apodaca - Infidelity Recovery Specialist4.7
1515 ratings
https://jordanapodaca.com/
What does betrayal trauma actually feel like?
Not everyone who experiences infidelity develops trauma. Some people experience grief, anger, and sadness, which are painful, but normal.
But for others, it feels like their entire sense of safety, reality, and identity has collapsed.
In this video, I break down the 4 major signs of betrayal trauma, how they show up in daily life, and how to tell the difference between normal heartbreak and a nervous system stuck in threat mode.
If you’ve been cheated on and you’re wondering:
- “Why can’t I stop thinking about it?”
- “Why do I feel crazy?”
- “Why can’t I relax even when nothing is happening?”
- “Is this normal?”
This will help you understand what’s really going on.
And more importantly, why time alone doesn’t fix it.
If this resonates, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Book a call with me below if you want help going deeper than coping strategies and actually resolving the root of the trauma.
⬇️ Apply to work with me: https://jordanapodaca.com/#free-call
📩 Subscribe for more content on betrayal trauma, infidelity recovery, and emotional healing.
---------------------------------------------------------------------
0:00 – Betrayal Trauma vs. Normal Grief
1:01 – The Moment of Discovery (Why It Feels Like Shock)
2:14 – Sign #1: Intrusive Thoughts You Can’t Control
3:35 – Sign #2: Hypervigilance & Constant Scanning
5:32 – Sign #3: Emotional Whiplash & Dysregulation
6:30 – Sign #4: Losing Trust in Your Own Perception
7:33 – How to Tell If It’s Trauma (Not Just Heartbreak)
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JJA Consulting LLC • Fully insured through Alternative Balance LLC • Based in Michigan • Sessions via Zoom • Confidential and results-based.
Disclaimer
Jordan is not a licensed therapist, counselor, or medical professional. His services are for educational and coaching purposes only and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any mental or medical condition. Individual results vary. If you are in crisis or need clinical support, please reach out to a licensed mental-health provider or emergency services.
Summary of Terms and Conditions
Educational Purpose Only: Coaching and hypnosis sessions are for personal development and educational purposes only.
Not Therapy or Medical Treatment: These services are not a substitute for counseling, psychotherapy, psychiatric, or medical care.
Results Vary: Individual results vary depending on many factors. No specific outcome is guaranteed.
Your Responsibility: You are responsible for your participation, decisions, and well-being before, during, and after sessions. You agree to remain coachable and follow the Practitioner's lead regarding session spacing.
No Refunds: All sales are final except as required by law. We commit to working with you until the specific result is achieved, provided you remain committed to the process.
Confidentiality: All private sessions are confidential except where disclosure is required by law.
Intellectual Property: All session materials and methods are owned by JJA Consulting LLC and may not be shared or reproduced.
Code of Conduct: We reserve the right to refuse or end services for disruptive, abusive, or unsafe behavior.
Results-Based Model: You are purchasing a result, not a time-based subscription. We do not offer weekly check-in calls or "venting" sessions. We meet only when necessary to achieve the specific result.
By scheduling or purchasing services, you agree to the full Terms and Conditions. You further agree that reasonable updates to these Terms to clarify the spirit of the agreement may apply to our engagement.
FULL TERMS:
https://jordanapodaca.com/#terms
Subscribe to The Infidelity Recovery Podcast on Soundwise

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