Are you resentful that you’re the one doing all the healing work after betrayal? It feels unfair—you didn’t cause the affair or the lies, yet you’re left carrying the heavy weight of betrayal trauma. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks why healing, as unjust as it feels, is still your choice, your responsibility, and your gift to yourself.

You’ll discover 3 powerful steps to move out of resentment and step into healing, freedom, and hope. Learn how to shift your mindset from “Why me?” to “What now?”, reclaim your daily power through practical tools, and release resentment through biblical truth.

If you’re ready to break free from bitterness and step into God’s restoration, this episode is for you.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

Why healing from betrayal trauma is about freedom, not fairness

3 steps to release resentment and reclaim peace

How forgiveness sets you free (without excusing the betrayal)

The biblical foundation for choosing your own healing journey

✨ Ready for a deeper path to healing? Discover Lisa’s self-guided 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program

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Sexual sobriety is about more than your behavior—it begins in your thought life. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse unpacks why your thoughts matter, how they shape your feelings, beliefs, and actions, and why true freedom requires taking every thought captive and submitting it to Christ.

You’ll discover:

The biblical foundation for renewing your mind (2 Corinthians 10:5, Romans 12:2, Philippians 4:8)

What neuroscience reveals about how your thought patterns create or break addictions

How to rewire your brain through God’s truth

5 practical steps to take every thought captive and walk in lasting sexual sobriety

If you’ve ever struggled to break free from lust, pornography, or sexual sin, this episode will give you both biblical wisdom and brain-based strategies to help you finally overcome.

👉 Ready to rebuild your marriage after betrayal? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned program

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

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Have you ever tried to explain betrayal trauma to a therapist, pastor, family member, or friend—only to be met with blank stares, clichés, or advice that left you feeling even more alone? You’re not crazy, and you’re not overreacting. Betrayal trauma is real, and in this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I’ll give you the exact language to help others finally understand.

You’ll discover:

3 powerful ways to explain what betrayal trauma really is

How betrayal trauma impacts your body, mind, and spirit

3 specific things you can share about what you need in order to heal

If you’ve ever felt unseen or unheard in your pain, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and hope as you invite others into your healing journey.

And if you’re ready to go deeper, my 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program is designed to help you move from shattered to restored—step by step, God’s way. Don’t wait to begin your healing.

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Is he gaslighting you after betrayal?

If you’ve ever felt confused, questioned your memory, or started to believe you’re the problem… this episode is for you.

Lisa breaks down what gaslighting looks like in a marriage rocked by sexual betrayal, how it keeps you stuck in shame and doubt, and the biblical truth and boundaries that will help you reclaim your voice, your clarity, and your healing.

🌸 Ready to take the next step?

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Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

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After betrayal, rebuilding trust can feel impossible—especially if every conversation starts to feel like an interrogation.

In today's episode, Christian marriage coach Lisa Limehouse reveals the top daily check-in routine that helps couples restore trust and connection without turning the betrayed spouse into a parole officer.

You’ll learn why proactive, consistent check-ins—led by the unfaithful spouse—create emotional safety, foster accountability, and help both partners begin to heal. Lisa walks you through the exact 5-question nightly routine she teaches inside her Marriage Redesigned Coaching Program, along with Scripture and real-life examples.

Whether you're the betrayed or the unfaithful spouse, this is a must-listen episode filled with practical tools and biblical truth to guide your healing journey.

🔗 Ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program.

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

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If you’re the unfaithful spouse wondering how to rebuild trust after infidelity, this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing powerful insight on why behavior modification isn’t enough—and how true heart transformation is what your wife desperately needs to see.

Learn why early recovery often feels like "checking boxes" and how that structure actually helps you stay the course and support your wife's healing. I offer 3 clear ways to demonstrate real change, plus 3 traits every man becoming new in Christ begins to show—humility, consistency, and servant leadership.

Backed by Scripture and real-world examples, this episode is your next step toward becoming the man God created you to be.

🔥 Ready to restore your marriage after betrayal? Learn about my Marriage Redesigned program and book your free consult at MARRIAGE REDESIGNED

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NEXT STEPS:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

What do you do when you unexpectedly see the other woman in public?

Today's episode is vulnerable and truth-filled. I'm guiding you through one of the most emotionally triggering moments after infidelity.

Learn how to manage your trauma response, why confronting the other woman won’t bring healing, and the 3 best practices to protect your peace and walk away with strength. Anchored in biblical truth and practical tools, this episode is a must-listen for any betrayed wife navigating the aftermath of an affair.

💔 Ready to start healing today?

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Keywords: Christian betrayal recovery, infidelity healing, seeing the other woman, how to deal with triggers, betrayal trauma response, Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse, 7 Pillars program, affair recovery, Christian podcast for betrayed wives

When healing after betrayal, there is one boundary that absolutely must be in place before trust can be rebuilt: complete severance from the affair partner — or the complete cutoff of pornography if addiction is the issue.

In this episode, I'm explaining why this boundary is the non-negotiable first step toward safety, healing, and restoration. You'll learn what boundaries are, what they’re not, how to set them biblically, and how to follow through — even when it’s hard.

If you’re ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way: MARRIAGE REDESIGNED

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NEXT STEPS:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

When your husband chooses infidelity, it’s easy to internalize the betrayal and wonder, “What did I do wrong?”

Today, I'm exposing one of the most damaging lies betrayed wives believe: that his betrayal means you failed.

I'm unpacking why infidelity is never the wife’s fault, what’s truly at the root of his choices, and how societal and even church-driven messages have wrongly placed the burden of a husband’s sexual sobriety on the wife’s shoulders. You’ll discover the emotional and spiritual damage this belief causes—and how to begin healing your mindset, releasing shame, and reclaiming your worth.

If you’ve ever wrestled with guilt, shame, or self-blame after betrayal, this is the episode your heart needs.

🔗 Ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program.

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NEXT STEPS:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Keywords: infidelity recovery, betrayed wife healing, Christian marriage betrayal, shame after affair, self-worth after betrayal, betrayal trauma, marriage coaching after affair

How can you tell if your husband is truly remorseful or just feeling guilty after infidelity? In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I'm breaking down the critical difference between guilt and true remorse—and why that distinction matters deeply for your healing journey as a betrayed wife.

You’ll learn:

Clear definitions and examples of guilt vs. true remorse

How to recognize when your spouse is just “checking boxes”

The top 3 signs that reveal whether he’s walking in true repentance

Why true remorse is essential for rebuilding trust

What you can do when guilt is present but transformation is not

I'm also sharing how my Marriage Redesigned program helps couples go beyond surface-level change to rebuild their relationship God’s way—through full ownership, heart transformation, and lasting healing.

If you’re tired of wondering whether his apology is real—or you just need clarity—this episode will equip you with the wisdom and encouragement you need.

True Apology | E117:  Listen Here

👉 Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program: Schedule your Consult Here

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE