I want to get real with you today...

Healing after betrayal is hard.

Some of you have been doing all the “right things,” yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.

Why?

Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.

So today, I’m breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayal—and what you can do instead to move forward in true healing. If you’ve ever felt like healing is taking longer than it should or wondered “Will I ever feel normal again?”—this episode is for you.

And stick around, because at the end, I have a special invitation for those of you who are ready to take the next step toward healing in a safe, supportive community of women who truly get it.

Let’s dive in!

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NEXT STEPS:

It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

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I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"

Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there. 

My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting. 

Today’s topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? You’ve prayed. You’ve pleaded. You’ve cried more tears than you can count. And yet, he’s still choosing the affair over your marriage. So where does that leave you? What can you do, and just as importantly, what can’t you do?

Sis, if this is you today, I want you to know this: You are not powerless. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. So let’s dive in and talk about what your next steps should be when your husband won’t end the affair.

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NEXT STEPS:

It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal?

In today's episode, we’re tackling a trap that so many betrayed wives fall into—competing with the affair person. If you've ever felt like you need to “win” your spouse back by trying to be sexier, more exciting, or more like the other woman, this episode is for you. We’re going to break down why this mindset is harmful and give you five powerful ways to stop competing and start reclaiming your God-given worth.

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NEXT STEPS:

It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

🚨TRIGGER WARNING🚨

Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian couples struggle with:

Is watching pornography or engaging in masturbation outside of intimacy with my spouse really considered cheating?

The world says no—it’s harmless, normal, and even beneficial.

But as Christians, we don’t define marriage through the world’s lens—we define it through God’s.

What is the standard for Christian Women and Men and What does God say about it?

We’ll explore why most Christian denominations consider these actions a serious sin against marital fidelity, break down the impact they have on a marriage, and give you steps to find healing.

We will also reveal the truth behind the industry and how it is designed to harm you, your marriage and your family.

And if this is something you or your spouse struggle with, don’t miss the end of the episode, where I’ll share how you can get the support you need inside my Marriage Redesigned program. Let’s dive in!"*

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NEXT STEPS:

It's NOT too late to register for our next Group Coaching Program that started February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way  Get in before the doors close March 8th!

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal?

After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming. The enemy wants to keep you stuck in a cycle of fear, doubt, and self-destruction. Self-sabotage is often a subconscious way to protect yourself from further pain, but in reality, it keeps you from experiencing the full healing and restoration that God desires for you. But there is a better way. You can stop the self-sabotage and move forward into true healing.

Wan to know how?

Let's dive in...

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapproval of family members who don’t agree with your decision. They may believe they are protecting you, or they may struggle to trust your spouse again after seeing your pain. Sometimes, this disapproval can lead to being shut out, leaving you feeling isolated and torn between your marriage and your family.

If you are in this situation, know that you are not alone. Many women who choose the path of reconciliation face resistance from loved ones. While you cannot control their reactions, you can take intentional steps to rebuild communication and foster understanding.

In today's show, I am sharing 3 strategies to help open the door to reconnecting with your family. 

Let's do this...

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Are you ready to reclaim your life and restore your marriage after betrayal?

Do you wonder if you could actually find healing inside of a group coaching program?

Will it be safe?

Today, I'm sharing 3 reasons why healing happens faster inside of a group coaching program when you have experienced betrayal trauma. 

Let's talk about it...

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

If you’ve been struggling with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or even physical symptoms after betrayal, you are not alone. Today, we’re going to dive deep into the top five symptoms of betrayal trauma, how they affect you, and how you can begin the healing process.

I also have an exciting opportunity for you—my 6-month group coaching program, "Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Marital Betrayal God’s Way," begins on February 10th. If you’re ready to accelerate your healing in a Christ-centered, supportive community, I’ll share more about how you can join at the end of this episode.

Let’s get started.

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Emotional dysregulation is a state where your emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or out of control. It’s as if your emotional thermostat is broken—one moment you’re completely numb, and the next, you’re consumed by anger, grief, or panic. For women experiencing betrayal trauma, this is a common and natural response to the immense emotional shock and pain of discovering infidelity.

In today’s episode, we’re tackling that important topic: emotional dysregulation from betrayal.

Stay with me because we’ll also cover five practical steps you can take to regain emotional balance.

Let’s dive in.

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

What Is Betrayal Trauma? And...

Is it even real?

If you’ve ever felt dismissed or wondered whether what you’re experiencing is valid, I want you to lean in. We’ll talk about what betrayal trauma is, its symptoms, and, most importantly, three ways to start your healing journey.

So grab a cup of coffee or tea, find a quiet moment, and let’s dive in!

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NEXT STEPS:

Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025:  Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information

Schedule your FREE CONSULT 

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE